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2010-04-15 7:58 am
我真係好迷茫.......
我兒家中2,讀緊一間band1頭既英中,我既成績只係中等,一啲都唔特出t~t
其實我對所有既科目都有興趣,但我對讀完呢啲科目後可以做既工作一啲興趣都冇-__-"
對音樂就好有興趣,可惜我父母唔喜愛音樂,我細個嗰時都唔知咪係音樂,
到咗我大小小時先接觸到,之後就好鍾意,我平時都會自己去聽concert,
因為我家只係中產家庭,媽做OL,爸係做工程,收入每月都係幾萬,
我仲有個妹,佢小3學piano,學咗一年唔想學,兒家小4
就係因為之前呀妹學piano,搞到我冇機會學violin,到兒家父母先比個機會我學,仲要好唔容易我先求到我啲呀姨津貼我學呀媽先比學
可惜我太遲學,基本上就唔夠時間比我學好,跟住去修音樂,我每日一放學4:30番到家就開始練琴,練到10:30太夜先停,因為我真係好希望我可以追番唔見咗既時間。
但係家人跟本就好唔想我學violin,我一拉就話我好煩好嘈好難聽,我都希望練多啲會好聽啲.....我有幾次放低個琴行開咗,跟住我呀妹用個足球掟我部琴,我好嬲,叫我呀妹唔好打ball,跟住成家人夾埋話係我唔啱,搞到我成日以為個ball係我自己掟,我仲要忍住扮冇事,其實我好驚個琴會出事,好貴,好想喊........
平時聽concert有拆,都係用零用錢,有時學費唔夠要自己比,我仲好想學聲樂,但係我怕遲啲連violin都可能冇得學。我又想學法文,呢樣媽咪都話ok。
我對音樂係好有興趣,就算練琴既時間我都覺得好開心唔想停,我真係好希望我一生人都可以享受音樂,以音樂作為職業,作為人生!但係我有太多限制,時間,金錢,家人,好多機會我都冇,但係我又唔知點搵/_\
我有諗過面對現實,呢係社會係要你讀書你就要讀書,個機會唔係你就唔可能做到,呢個世界最緊要搵錢,你兒家仲比較有機會既只有讀好啲書,求其搵份高人工既job就算,不如你當音樂just for fun算啦,你搵多啲錢將你既希望留比下一代實現啦!
不過我想係唔想,既然搞到錢要死,拉violin都到死,成功定失敗都要死,冇人唔使死。不如我試下,起碼做過,開心過啦!
但係要實現太多困難,我太多空想,我真係想有多啲錢,學多啲,咪獎金呀,我都搵唔到,我真係唔知點算,我真怕我會做錯決定,或miss咗機會搞到我一世都遺憾.......我可以點樣做?
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i need sone help!!!!!!plz!!!!!

回答 (2)

2010-04-19 2:14 pm
✔ 最佳答案
First of all, I am in form 2 also! High 5! (im 周芷若's sister)

From what you wrote, i understand that you really love music. The problem is, you are worried about your future because you are too obsessed with music.

What i'll suggest you to do is to NOT imagine stuff that would rarely happen.
Even if you wish of having more money, money wouldn't just fall out from the sky. There's no point of being upset about liking music. If you really like playing violin, then you should tell your family about it and keep playing. After you achieve some certain level, you could teach kids how to pay and earn money by that. But then, that means you REALLY need to put your heart on it and practice more. You could become a piano teacher in the future also! The wages of teaching piano is SUPER HIGH once you mastered it. (My friends told me that it costs
$55/1 hr for their piano class)

On the other hand, aside from your interest in music, you should try your best to improve your academic marks also. I think learning French is a really good idea. (In fact, i am currently studying in Canada and we HAVE to learn French-.-) However, before deciding if you are going to start studying French, you have to decide if you can handle all of your schoolwork once you started. But FIRST, you have to focus on studying English. (i don't think you have any problems with chinese, right? o_o)

Please don't 空想 because that's a waster of time. You have to live in the REALITY!

If you need someone to talk to, you can talk to me on Msn. My email address is [email protected].

Best of luck to you! (^w^)

2010-04-19 06:14:43 補充:
this is just my personal opinion...if you think im not right, then don't take my advises...i hope you understand what i was tlking about. XD
2010-04-24 1:45 am

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