我同咗一個外國人係埋一齊。。。九月中到一齊。。。就黎６個月。。。同佢一齊。。。我覺得好開心。。。但係。。。佢成日都係好忙好忙咁。。。就係因為佢太忙。。。所以。。。我成日陪唔到佢。。。佢返工的時間都唔定的。。。
我同佢的年紀。。。其實相差好大。。。佢e＋45。。。我e＋21。。。但係。。。我覺得係沒有問題的。。。只要大家對大家好就可以。。。
但係。。。有次。。。我同佢講到去我哋係咁relationship的問題上。。。佢話。。。dunno。。。又話。。。點解你會問e個問題。。。我就話我之前有一個bad experience。。。咁佢就話。。。你個bad experience係好耐之前。。。then最後就話。。。唔講係咩關係。。。男方就唔使咁負咁多責任。。。（其實。。。我聽到e句之後。。。我唔開心的）。。。之後沒多久。。。我問佢。。。２５號得唔得閒。。。佢就問我做咩。。。我話。。。果日係我哋一齊咗６個月。。。但係。。。佢就笑笑口咁同我say話。。。maybe（maybe我哋真係一齊咗６個月）。。。我問佢why？？？佢答完等於沒有答。。。我真係好唔開心ar。。。但係。。。每次我問佢。。。佢都係咁。。。我次次問佢。。。佢都唔同我發脾氣。。。佢對我好gentle。。。所有。。。我根本揾唔到位angry。。。
咁好la。。。有次我唔小心咁。。。將佢個email copy 咗係個google seach 度。。。我見到佢有好多好多的online dating account。。。咁我就睇la。。。睇到有好多都係我識佢之前申請。。。有好多都係e＋冇用的。。。但係。。。有２個網。。。佢仲上lo。。。我仲見到。。。last view係上個月２７號。。。佢係個網度。。。就話自己係single。。。其中。。。佢係個網度話。。。佢係single。。。& sexless沒有小朋友。。。NOT MARRIED OR HAVE A GIRLFRIEND。。。咁即係點。。。我真係好好好好好唔開心。。。
我有時去佢果度。。。佢就成日都係有個cam掛住的。。。我又問佢。。。有沒有玩cam。。。佢就話個cam係壞的。。。但係我之後try過唔係的。。。
唔好意思。。。可能長咗少少。。。但係我真係好想知道。。。佢有沒有當我係佢女朋友？？？如果唔係的話。。。我哋又係d咩關係。。。thx
佢有沒有當我係佢女朋友？？？
2010-03-09 1:39 am
回答 (7)
2010-03-10 12:36 pm
佢緊係有當你係佢女朋友
2010-03-09 4:09 am
first, let me tell you the different between foreign ( Westren countries )men and Chinese men, how they look at the couple's relationship.
Chinese when live together, they will consider the girl as his intermed 'girl friend'. not only will treat her this way, but will take responsible when something happen.
Foreign men when live together , they will consider the girl is 'best female friend', of course, to friend you have to be gentle la. they also respect the personal privacy,
therefore, he told you he doesn't about what 'relationship to you' is ok.because he not ready to have that-- relationship-- you talking about.
he tell people he is single, yes he is --- he never marry you, right?
he can date other girls, he can play cam with any one he want. because he is single man, you are just one of his BEST FEMALE FRIEND..
he is 45, and you are 22. to me, that is big different and matter.
8,10 years later, when he is 55 and you are 32, you will find out what i mean. no sexually, but also the mind thinking, the point of view to things. will make you two apart.
my suggestion.
you should understand the different between------- female freind and girl friend. ( live in doesn't effect that term ).
you like to continue live with him, but don't care about the title of the relationship.?
you ok for him continue to contact people outside-----dating.?
-------- test him: you dated a male friend and come back to tell him, if he will not angry about and no emotion. then what i say above is damn truth.
2010-03-08 20:10:27 補充：
i live in US over 30 years, i knew what foreign people thinking and their life style.
Chinese when live together, they will consider the girl as his intermed 'girl friend'. not only will treat her this way, but will take responsible when something happen.
Foreign men when live together , they will consider the girl is 'best female friend', of course, to friend you have to be gentle la. they also respect the personal privacy,
therefore, he told you he doesn't about what 'relationship to you' is ok.because he not ready to have that-- relationship-- you talking about.
he tell people he is single, yes he is --- he never marry you, right?
he can date other girls, he can play cam with any one he want. because he is single man, you are just one of his BEST FEMALE FRIEND..
he is 45, and you are 22. to me, that is big different and matter.
8,10 years later, when he is 55 and you are 32, you will find out what i mean. no sexually, but also the mind thinking, the point of view to things. will make you two apart.
my suggestion.
you should understand the different between------- female freind and girl friend. ( live in doesn't effect that term ).
you like to continue live with him, but don't care about the title of the relationship.?
you ok for him continue to contact people outside-----dating.?
-------- test him: you dated a male friend and come back to tell him, if he will not angry about and no emotion. then what i say above is damn truth.
2010-03-08 20:10:27 補充：
i live in US over 30 years, i knew what foreign people thinking and their life style.
2010-03-09 2:13 am
算吧啦!
鬼佬真係冇本心!
唔係種族歧視呀!
但係鬼佬真係唔夠中國男人顧家!
我唔知你條仔咩國籍啦,我當係西方歐美個d啦(唔會係日本仔咁吹脹卦)!
鬼仔鬼妹不嬲都好鬼open架啦!
男女關係,sex都隨隨便便咁!
冇錯呀!鬼佬好早結婚生仔呀,但多數都係玩大左o者!
而且離婚率好高呀!
又鍾意叫雞蒲bar!你睇下d英超球星就知啦!
大家culture唔同,點會同你認真!
佢地爛玩d架啦!
一係你就就佢!一係就算數!
唔係年齡歧視!
但係講真,佢做得你老豆啦!
一d代溝都冇?可能佢心境年輕啦!
但係如果係認真既關係,我指會結婚既,差咁衰真係唔係件好事囉!
你屋企人冇反對?
點都好,就算佢係好好仔,單係文化,年齡既差異,你地一齊既時候都要三思啦!
何況佢都唔慌係咩好仔!
你有冇睇畢打自己人呀?
我覺得你條仔就好似畢打入面個何守信!
一把年紀,大把後生女朋友,玩下架o者!
online dating佢係匿名咁玩?
當畀個假既identity上網扮下野過下癮既你咪由佢囉!
但如果唔係玩下既,而係真係有date d女出黎咁就唔得喇!
我就覺得佢係後者囉!
cam個度,身冇屎又講咩大話?
可能玩cam sex都唔定!
拿,我估架咋,唔好話我詆毀你條仔呀!
我只係覺得,佢咁既年紀啦,點解仲未結婚?
定係佢離過婚?如果離過婚,咁而家都唔會太投入啦,未必真係想搵第二春囉!
如果真係未結過婚,即係咁大個人都冇諗過定性囉!
怕且呢世都唔會結婚啦!
咁溝o靚妹都係攝下時間,玩下,扑下野,唔係for過人世囉!
佢仲要唔嗲唔吊咁,好似唔認你係佢條女,又咩都唔上心!
佢對段關係有幾投入?大家心照啦!
此男不可靠也!你好自為之!
2010-03-08 20:47:35 補充：
你都係澳洲人????
點都好,我唔理你地咩國家,咩年紀,好公平齋講個人!
條友真係唔掂囉!
今次唔散,遲早都散,佢唔係一個可以附託終身既對象囉!
將來同你同偕白首既唔會係佢!
既然如此,索性分手好啦,長痛不如短痛!
費事拖耐左又唔捨得,又蝕晒d青春!
或者唔分住,你就真係同佢三口六面講清楚:
1.問佢我上次玩你個cam,鬼有壞呀?
2.係呢,你有冇玩online dating?
3.講,究竟我係咪你條女!(拍檯)答我!
要有霸氣!
如果佢仲係講大話/唔承認你/發老脾,由這一刻開始你就可以對佢慢慢的心淡!
byebye得喇,這樣的男人,由他去吧!
2010-03-08 20:49:00 補充：
如果佢肯坦白,承認你,肯改!
咁故且畀個機會佢啦!
臨老入花叢,都唔好再離離合合啦,唔係真係咁唔安定呀嘛?
但我怕且你條仔根本就係浪子一名!
你都唔好咁大期望!
2010-03-08 20:53:55 補充：
乜鬼best female friend丫,鬼佬一樣會認女朋友,男朋友!
你地有sex架啦,咁樣都仲唔認你係佢條女,條友就真係好唔負責!
o趙完鬆都仲算啦,佢食完唔鬆人仲繼續歎免費餐?
你地既然有得sex,唔係情侶就係SP啦,冇理由佢當你SP咁侮辱卦?
咁都仲可以唔認你係佢條女?
對外人唔認,扮SINGLE,ok我明!
係自己條女(你)面前都仲唔認,咁佢就真係唔當你係,詐傻扮慒!
既然佢唔認,你都唔使認佢架喎,彼得三次不認主就出賣耶穌架喇!
你可以即管去溝仔,唔使理佢,因為佢唔係你邊個!
2010-03-12 19:34:54 補充：
嘩,你地冇sex?
咁唔怪之得佢要online dating又疑似cam sex啦!
根本佢就應該要搵個人扑野啦係咪?
我本人就是頗賤格的,請怒我直言,如果你條仔真係出去瘟女都無可厚非啦!
試諗諗,自己屋企冇飯開,咁除左偷食,仲可以點?
同埋佢4字頭既正常男人黎架,點忍?
佢有冇要求過先?但係你地都有共識架啦係咪?
咁佢都知自己無望食你豬,惟有出街食啦!
如果你地呢方面有分歧的話,就得兩條路:分手/結婚!
佢係咪會結婚的人呢?你地自己討論討論喇!
2010-03-12 19:38:41 補充：
另一個可能性,就係佢真係冇當你係女朋友!
不過唔係唔鍾意你既,不過佢覺得大家未有sex唔算真係情侶,只係發展中.
既然如此,大家未「正式」一齊,咁佢都可以繼續識女仔,睇下有冇其他選擇啦!
只是個人揣測...但照你所言,你地應該拍拖得好明顯下,佢冇理由「唔知」你地拍梗拖卦?
點都好,其實你直接問佢你當唔當我係你條女咪得囉!
呢個答案恐怕只有佢畀到你!
我講個d都係得個估字,我又唔識佢,可能有誤會,諗得比較向負面!
你都係親自同佢傾傾好d!
2010-03-12 19:44:38 補充：
話時話,咁佢係online dating profile寫自己sexless又冇錯架喎!
頭先睇漏左你一段補充,而家睇完好似清楚d!
你地應該係發展中既男女囉,而家係試探之中,未去到真係一齊囉!
我覺得最好真firm下,正式一齊!
不過佢真係好麻煩,你又唔係冇問過(類似表白),佢又dunno...拖梗你啦
又唔食,又咬住唔放
你都索性同佢講唔想拖拉同曖昧,希望大家正式講清楚係朋友/情人啦!
p.s你係咪真係好鍾意佢先?如果都唔係踩得太深,就算冇得一齊都唔使太傷心
老實講,21歲vs45歲,點我都覺得唔襯!
或者佢都係因為呢個原因而唔敢同你再進一步?
鬼佬真係冇本心!
唔係種族歧視呀!
但係鬼佬真係唔夠中國男人顧家!
我唔知你條仔咩國籍啦,我當係西方歐美個d啦(唔會係日本仔咁吹脹卦)!
鬼仔鬼妹不嬲都好鬼open架啦!
男女關係,sex都隨隨便便咁!
冇錯呀!鬼佬好早結婚生仔呀,但多數都係玩大左o者!
而且離婚率好高呀!
又鍾意叫雞蒲bar!你睇下d英超球星就知啦!
大家culture唔同,點會同你認真!
佢地爛玩d架啦!
一係你就就佢!一係就算數!
唔係年齡歧視!
但係講真,佢做得你老豆啦!
一d代溝都冇?可能佢心境年輕啦!
但係如果係認真既關係,我指會結婚既,差咁衰真係唔係件好事囉!
你屋企人冇反對?
點都好,就算佢係好好仔,單係文化,年齡既差異,你地一齊既時候都要三思啦!
何況佢都唔慌係咩好仔!
你有冇睇畢打自己人呀?
我覺得你條仔就好似畢打入面個何守信!
一把年紀,大把後生女朋友,玩下架o者!
online dating佢係匿名咁玩?
當畀個假既identity上網扮下野過下癮既你咪由佢囉!
但如果唔係玩下既,而係真係有date d女出黎咁就唔得喇!
我就覺得佢係後者囉!
cam個度,身冇屎又講咩大話?
可能玩cam sex都唔定!
拿,我估架咋,唔好話我詆毀你條仔呀!
我只係覺得,佢咁既年紀啦,點解仲未結婚?
定係佢離過婚?如果離過婚,咁而家都唔會太投入啦,未必真係想搵第二春囉!
如果真係未結過婚,即係咁大個人都冇諗過定性囉!
怕且呢世都唔會結婚啦!
咁溝o靚妹都係攝下時間,玩下,扑下野,唔係for過人世囉!
佢仲要唔嗲唔吊咁,好似唔認你係佢條女,又咩都唔上心!
佢對段關係有幾投入?大家心照啦!
此男不可靠也!你好自為之!
2010-03-08 20:47:35 補充：
你都係澳洲人????
點都好,我唔理你地咩國家,咩年紀,好公平齋講個人!
條友真係唔掂囉!
今次唔散,遲早都散,佢唔係一個可以附託終身既對象囉!
將來同你同偕白首既唔會係佢!
既然如此,索性分手好啦,長痛不如短痛!
費事拖耐左又唔捨得,又蝕晒d青春!
或者唔分住,你就真係同佢三口六面講清楚:
1.問佢我上次玩你個cam,鬼有壞呀?
2.係呢,你有冇玩online dating?
3.講,究竟我係咪你條女!(拍檯)答我!
要有霸氣!
如果佢仲係講大話/唔承認你/發老脾,由這一刻開始你就可以對佢慢慢的心淡!
byebye得喇,這樣的男人,由他去吧!
2010-03-08 20:49:00 補充：
如果佢肯坦白,承認你,肯改!
咁故且畀個機會佢啦!
臨老入花叢,都唔好再離離合合啦,唔係真係咁唔安定呀嘛?
但我怕且你條仔根本就係浪子一名!
你都唔好咁大期望!
2010-03-08 20:53:55 補充：
乜鬼best female friend丫,鬼佬一樣會認女朋友,男朋友!
你地有sex架啦,咁樣都仲唔認你係佢條女,條友就真係好唔負責!
o趙完鬆都仲算啦,佢食完唔鬆人仲繼續歎免費餐?
你地既然有得sex,唔係情侶就係SP啦,冇理由佢當你SP咁侮辱卦?
咁都仲可以唔認你係佢條女?
對外人唔認,扮SINGLE,ok我明!
係自己條女(你)面前都仲唔認,咁佢就真係唔當你係,詐傻扮慒!
既然佢唔認,你都唔使認佢架喎,彼得三次不認主就出賣耶穌架喇!
你可以即管去溝仔,唔使理佢,因為佢唔係你邊個!
2010-03-12 19:34:54 補充：
嘩,你地冇sex?
咁唔怪之得佢要online dating又疑似cam sex啦!
根本佢就應該要搵個人扑野啦係咪?
我本人就是頗賤格的,請怒我直言,如果你條仔真係出去瘟女都無可厚非啦!
試諗諗,自己屋企冇飯開,咁除左偷食,仲可以點?
同埋佢4字頭既正常男人黎架,點忍?
佢有冇要求過先?但係你地都有共識架啦係咪?
咁佢都知自己無望食你豬,惟有出街食啦!
如果你地呢方面有分歧的話,就得兩條路:分手/結婚!
佢係咪會結婚的人呢?你地自己討論討論喇!
2010-03-12 19:38:41 補充：
另一個可能性,就係佢真係冇當你係女朋友!
不過唔係唔鍾意你既,不過佢覺得大家未有sex唔算真係情侶,只係發展中.
既然如此,大家未「正式」一齊,咁佢都可以繼續識女仔,睇下有冇其他選擇啦!
只是個人揣測...但照你所言,你地應該拍拖得好明顯下,佢冇理由「唔知」你地拍梗拖卦?
點都好,其實你直接問佢你當唔當我係你條女咪得囉!
呢個答案恐怕只有佢畀到你!
我講個d都係得個估字,我又唔識佢,可能有誤會,諗得比較向負面!
你都係親自同佢傾傾好d!
2010-03-12 19:44:38 補充：
話時話,咁佢係online dating profile寫自己sexless又冇錯架喎!
頭先睇漏左你一段補充,而家睇完好似清楚d!
你地應該係發展中既男女囉,而家係試探之中,未去到真係一齊囉!
我覺得最好真firm下,正式一齊!
不過佢真係好麻煩,你又唔係冇問過(類似表白),佢又dunno...拖梗你啦
又唔食,又咬住唔放
你都索性同佢講唔想拖拉同曖昧,希望大家正式講清楚係朋友/情人啦!
p.s你係咪真係好鍾意佢先?如果都唔係踩得太深,就算冇得一齊都唔使太傷心
老實講,21歲vs45歲,點我都覺得唔襯!
或者佢都係因為呢個原因而唔敢同你再進一步?
2010-03-09 2:00 am
個個玩這些話自己單身,事實你同你男友相差咁多,你想的和佢想的始終好唔同,,唉,你忍得就一齊,但有時分手未必不是好事.好好想想同佢溝通呢個問題吧.
2010-03-09 1:57 am
個外國男人有無香港居留,如果佢無香港居留,一定唔可以同佢一齊.
因為好多香港無居留o既外國男人又想要香港居留,
會同好多香港女仔拍拖
<---有o甘多得o甘多,但唔係真心,睇下邊個肯同佢結婚,慳番果幾年住夠先可以做香港人o既時間.
2010-03-10 23:52:49 補充：
聽你o甘講,佢只不過係一個老playboy.
"但係。。。有時。。。我問佢我哋的關係。。。佢又問返我。。。一係就話dunno。。。所以我唔知係定唔係。。。"<-----佢唔肯認你做女朋友.
"你個bad experience係好耐之前。。。then最後就話。。。唔講係咩關係。。。男方就唔使咁負咁多責任。。。"<------同上面果引文加埋結論: 佢無同你講咩關係,佢就唔使咁負咁多責任,你咪就係"唔使咁負咁多責任果個囉"
2010-03-10 23:57:52 補充：
你係都唔信,都有一個方法令你死心
就係開個新交友account,add佢,唔好話佢知係你.
搵張佢唔識果d女星相,靚o既話係你,你同話想sex,你問佢肯唔肯,約出來sex.佢話肯,你仲唔死心.
2010-03-11 00:01:30 補充：
張女星相搵d似生活照果d,唔好搵張沙龍相果d.
因為好多香港無居留o既外國男人又想要香港居留,
會同好多香港女仔拍拖
<---有o甘多得o甘多,但唔係真心,睇下邊個肯同佢結婚,慳番果幾年住夠先可以做香港人o既時間.
2010-03-10 23:52:49 補充：
聽你o甘講,佢只不過係一個老playboy.
"但係。。。有時。。。我問佢我哋的關係。。。佢又問返我。。。一係就話dunno。。。所以我唔知係定唔係。。。"<-----佢唔肯認你做女朋友.
"你個bad experience係好耐之前。。。then最後就話。。。唔講係咩關係。。。男方就唔使咁負咁多責任。。。"<------同上面果引文加埋結論: 佢無同你講咩關係,佢就唔使咁負咁多責任,你咪就係"唔使咁負咁多責任果個囉"
2010-03-10 23:57:52 補充：
你係都唔信,都有一個方法令你死心
就係開個新交友account,add佢,唔好話佢知係你.
搵張佢唔識果d女星相,靚o既話係你,你同話想sex,你問佢肯唔肯,約出來sex.佢話肯,你仲唔死心.
2010-03-11 00:01:30 補充：
張女星相搵d似生活照果d,唔好搵張沙龍相果d.
2010-03-09 1:49 am
佢沒有當你係佢女朋友
2010-03-09 1:40 am
佢有當我係佢女朋友!!!!!!!!!!!
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