were to watch adult anime?

Try Fist of the North Star, Blue Gender, When They Cry, Ninja Scroll, Afro Samurai, and there is also alot more in the sci-fi category that will give you what you are looking for.

If you want language though, try the other English dub of Milk-Chan(not the one shown on adult swim, but the one only on the dvd.)

Btw, Berserk and Elfen Lied are two great series..

AIKa, The Devil Lady, Najica, Futari Ecchi (a.k.a. Futari H), Godannar, Gantz, Elfen Lied, Samurai Gun, Queen's Blade and many other adult anime.

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im not really surewat u mean "adult" anime.
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