我個女條校裙接到好短...可以點幫佢?

睇嚟你個女都知發生緊乜事，與其當佢小朋友替佢想辦法，不如在這答問過程中了解下佢覺得佢會做啲乜保護自己仲實際，唔係防止比人睇到或睇唔到，而係了解下佢對「性意念」的底線。

坦白講，今日係條校裙短，唔使兩年後可能係啲衫心口唔夠布的問題，再過幾年便點解啲個胸太凸，又或是個胸唔凸等等。你會驚佢睇蝕，還是應該教識佢如何判斷自己的選擇的可能後果。

你的邏輯是：短裙 = 走光 = 被人睇 = 出事 = 蝕底 = 要防止

她的邏輯是：短裙 = 冇犯規 = 有缺點但可以小心防守 = 沒有實際損失 = 可能會被人睇令自己唔舒服，但不是常發生

我的邏輯是讓她自己去取捨：短桾 = 跟同學睇齊，心理好過些，但有風險 = 裙長一點是否風險少一點 ，冇咁大心理壓力 = 條桾唔可能變成黑色，人亦唔可能變成唔透光，你認為要怎樣才能兩全其美 = 被人望到裙低有甚麼捐失，有甚麼比看到你條底更麻煩 = 你穿衣服時如何考慮對自己的影響 = 你想你給人的觀感是專重你，還是佔想你便宜...你要認清的選擇 - 包括衣著，交朋友，去wet.

今日著住衫都話比人睇哂，你想你個女會唔會同傾幾時至真係應該比人睇哂！

我說得有點玄，希望你明白你個女其實好有自知之明，你應該把重點放在真正重要的關係了解上，不要為了條裙而失去她。

grandtom (004) 真係好搞笑.. .人地話係佢個女, 唔係佢條女喎!

上面都有好多高手講左野...恕我直言,可見你個女係對自己外表係非常隨便,比人看裙底當習慣,呢個思想已經係好唔要,身為母親最簡單方法係話比佢知女仔應該要點保護自己,如果唔會出事就麻煩na~
我相信就算轉校都冇用,裙係可以摺到好短都得的~

Dont force her to stop!!!
If you force her, she will hate you, and think you are kind of oldskl... well if you dont stop her, at least she will tell you everything happened, and you can keep your relationship first.
What you should do is to influence her. Try to get some movies, stories telling people not to wear so sexy and telling them what is the consequence of being raped. She may have a baby... tell her these.
PLUS, you must tell the teacher, secretly. I dont think your daughter do this because her classmates do the same thing... there must be some girls not doing this... She just want maybe to attract people or to show her legs. Tell the teacher to keep an eye on these girls.
I understand you are very worried, but dont like force her, or tell her not to do. Think some other ways. I dont mean you should support her, but maybe when she tell you, dont scold her immediately. You have to make her understand BY HERSELF.
Wish you good luck :D

she is your girl friend wor, not wife yet.
how she dress is not your business, if you don't like it. tell her to break off lor.
you have no right to tell anyone how to wear clothes.

give others some respect lar...... young man! you have long way to learn how to please girl neh..

she like the dress short, she like to show off her legs, she like to get other's attention. so, just leave her alone. or find another more traditional girl friend like yourself.

step1.你同你女傾下...<--應該無用...唔好嬲..佢反叛期...搵緊自己條路

step2.轉間唔畀校服裙短嚴學校

有d變態佬對短校服裙有特別僻好..所以..好危險

2010-02-10 00:45:46 補充：
-.-裙唔係摺到幾短都得的
會有一大舊野突左出來-.-"..

而且...嚴果d學校...老師係街<---係街...見到d學生校服裙o甘短...會罵一餐勁...

2010-02-10 00:58:22 補充：
-.-十幾歲好怕同d同學仔fd唔到ga-.-真ga...

轉校除左有人老師睇住外...仲可以避免佢因為怕無朋友而校服裙短...

1]你嚴肅D同佢講
但唔好鬧佢同打佢

2]同學校反映
我相信其他家長都會有同感

3]同佢講&quot;e~你條裙咁短.唔岩著啦bo.買過條比你啦&quot;
之後買條超長的.佢如果接都接唔到幾多

要盡快.因為最近有好多色狼.
非禮同強姦的新聞比以前多左好多.
其實我覺得最好既方法都係同學校講~

希望幫到你啦~

着打底褲Lo.
一係寫信同學校反映.