✔ 最佳答案
An old, and very wise man told me when I am pointing a finger at someone else to accuse them, I have three fingers pointing back at me - and I better look into myself to see if I am carrying those traits myself.
Oftentimes when I dislike someone instantly it is because they stir in me my own hated, usually hidden character traits. Hidden, that is, only to me, and it's a gift that my shortcomings were pointed out to me so I can then mature and become a better person.
Very rarely, it was only because they unconsciously reminded me of someone that hurt me deeply.