我應否再跟他一起?

2010-01-30 7:53 am
現在我跟他分開1個月多了..
可是心裡還一直想念他..
在我們一起的10個月內,
共分開了幾次...
先由頭開始講起..再等大家評論!

2月19 是我和他一起的第一天
那天他突然奇來既表白真的嚇了我一跳..
現在還很心刻形象..

2月20 開始跟他交往

2月21 知道他跟我好朋友kiss
那時心想..只是短短的第二天
他就做出對我唔住既事..
接著喊著跟他了解清楚..
可是因為那是剛剛開始..
所以試給他機會..

不久 才知道原來他的理由是騙我的..
真是很傷心..
之後呢件事就不了了知了..

2月某天
前男友跟他打起上來
xbf認為因為他..令到我跟佢分手
呢件事..令到很多人注意了我..
每天也有人專程到我班房看我..
雖然知道..但我只好辨唔知..

3月14
bf 送上朱古力跟介指作情人節禮物.
真係好感動..

一直幸福直至我生日的那個月..

那天相約跟朋友唱k
他對我做出很過分的事 (在我眼中啦)
因為接受不下我提出分手
他一直有搵我的..

直至生日那天
他託朋友送生日禮物給我..
共520顆星星+我最愛的史迪仔...另有一封信
內容是說..
對不起!我這個不配你的男朋友..希望你原諒我..我真係好愛你
我保證以後唔會有同樣既事發生...
班主任看到後..也為我倆祝福
不知不覺原諒了他..再次一起.

中秋節
相約一班fd去清水灣玩..
然而他看見似鐘意我既男孩抱起左我..(那男孩是我的知已)
於是他呷醋起來..
接著.我跟男孩到海邊傾心事
他就咁嬲了我...
接著 他sd sms俾我
內容說..
sorry..今年中秋節令到你咁不快樂,
對唔住.老婆
但係我真係唔想失去你,
我只係想你唔好離開我..
我愛你.老婆..

萬聖節
跟他wif朋友去magabox and很多地方的鬼屋
其中一次的鬼屋,他遲到了..可是各人都鬧著要玩
因此沒有等他就進鬼屋了
當時嚇得我 捉住了男孩的手
我已經即刻放手..
同樣地他知道後就嬲了我..
不久一起到朋友家打邊爐
不知不覺..跟他鬧著分手了
不知是不是巧合那是介指突然掉出黎..
回到家裡..
我喊了起來..
跟他通電話說只是以氣用事.又再一起

某天
相約很多朋友一起溜冰
巧合撞見男友=)
可是因為我味溜過的關係..
男孩拖著我的手.教我
然而..唔小心跟男孩攬著跌落地下
他看見又呷醋起來..

10月份我知道有個女仔同樣地鐘意他
我跟他說過後 他不但不相信 而且並因此鬧了幾次交
11月有天,..女孩跟他表白了..
他拒絕佢.就跟她做兄妹
可是..
某天..我終於忍受不下女孩"前"住他
心知我怎麼說也沒有用,,
就跟他說我喜歡上男孩..就和他分手了

跟後的一星期..他跟她開始了
本來女孩心知冇可能既時候
是他主動攬她的..同kiss
我知道後..雖然很傷心..但也祝福了他們

可是某天他跟她提出分手了
然後跟我講仲好鐘意我..想同番我一齊
咁我就即刻問番佢點解要同佢做d情侶既野..
他說 把她當做我了..
我當然認為冇可能啦..
他又說:你俾時間我.我會証明我真係愛你
跟住雖然我再同反佢一齊..

12月份
但係我知道了 她給了第一次俾他
那時嬲到我..打給好朋友..
喊著跟好朋友說......很多說話
接著..
又知道了原來好朋友早前跟他又kiss了
嬲到我同好朋友絕交
之後我清楚他 應該要向她負責任的..
所以笑著 叫他倆一齊
之後從此沒有再跟他聯絡了

可是..他並沒有跟她一齊
反而跟我說
5年之約 除左我之外唔會同其他女仔一齊..
但我沒有理會他..
他後來就算俾她其他自稱呀哥的人威脅
也不跟她一齊..
呢點我真係感動了...

此時此刻.
他還一直等著我..同時我也知道她也等著他
我們大家在msn的灰字...所寫的...

我:縱使你離開了我 但我也不會孤單; )
他:如果有天你覺得孤獨,就留在我身邊做我老婆好不好,我不會任何甜言蜜語,但可以給你一個溫暖懷抱...
她:最愛你的人是我 你怎麽捨得我難過 為你付出那這麼多 你卻沒有感動過

那我還應唔應該再同反佢一齊呀..

回答 (6)

2010-02-04 2:19 am
✔ 最佳答案
好多巧合咁你同一個男仔一齊趺又拖到手...
咁就搞到好似故意...
ok悟講呢樣住,,講佢先..
佢又同她做過...
佢又同你好朋友kiss過
咁你又點解悟問佢做咩要咁做?
你只為自己去煩惱,,但悟諗下係米佢都有錯?
你問清楚佢,,再諗下佢係你心到佔左幾多份量
再俾一個星期既時間佢,,你搵佢又得悟搵佢又得
如果你想快D知佢係米真係緊張你
你就試下(如果有時間);
係msn打;聽日去xxx玩&陪fd飲酒...我諗會飲得好醉
就算你平時悟飲,,佢都覺得你可能因為佢而悟開心so去飲酒
你再加一句;如果聽日x點(例;7點pm)
有人去xxx到接我,,咁我就可以飲得開心d lu
如果佢係有心,,正常都會去搵你啦下話,,不過你要去睇下佢會悟會黎,,so你搵d比較近你既地方就得
如果佢覺得你係玩既,,悟黎,,咁你都死得一半心架啦
如果悟想咁樣,,就係msn打;我好得閒...但係我悟想搵人,,只係想緊張我既人搵我''
如果佢on左你知佢係係到但係又悟搵你既話姐係悟留意你啦..咁就悟好再同佢一齊
真正中意你既人係會為你付出同埋悟會怕呢樣個樣而悟搵你,,佢一定會好珍惜搵你既機會同時間
2010-02-03 1:02 am
我應為如果你真係好鍾意好鍾意佢既話.
我覺得你同番佢一齊好d..
但你有冇諗過佢點解要呃你?
每個人呃個個人都係有佢既原因..
仲有..每個人都會做錯時既事後..
但你原諒左佢咁多次.
咁不如你試下再俾多次機會佢囉..
你同佢一齊左之後.
你過多一個禮拜再睇下佢有冇呃你先
如果佢真係再呃你先諗同唔同佢散囉..
但係你要知道一個人呃得你一次就可以呃你一百次..
2010-01-30 10:20 am
Love always base on emotional and making no sense or no idea at all,
why in love with him / her so passionately? (It is fairly normal)

THAT WHAT IS ALL LOVE ABOUT!

Love is all about trust and truth. (I didn't see any from both of you!)

True love need to pass and go through plenty of test / exam! (Both of you
were failed!)

TRUE LOVE GUIDANCE

Forgiveness, understanding, sharing (good or bad), responsibility, but most
of all is SACRIFICES! (If you want to know how deep is your love to him or
how much he loves you?)

see below:-


* GET OUT A PIECE OF PAPER, DRAW A LINE IN THE MIDDLE.
LEFT SIDE WITH DOWN YOUR NAME & RIGHT SIDE WITH HIS.

* WRITE DOWN WHAT DID YOU SACRIFICE FOR HIM ONE BY ONE,
DO THE SAME THING UNDER HIS NAME.

* FINALLY CALCULATE THE RESULTS ON BOTH SIDE, AND YOU WILL
GET THE ANSWER.

WHETHER YOU LOVE HIM MORE OR HE LOVES YOU MORE.


Despite the answer had some clue to your matters, it is for some
reference only. No one can solve your problem! ONLY YOU CAN!

If you scare of being hurt, you're not good enough to earn a true relationship.
It is because you don't want to sacrifice, it also mean you're not that love him!

Be advice, True Love is not just saying it, you must acting it.

2010-01-30 02:22:37 補充:
I never believed one life one love! It is ridicules being with someone 40 to
50 years together and still in love with each other like first met. Marriage is
one of the most wonderful thing on earth (if you meet your true love), love
does last forever!

2010-01-30 02:25:05 補充:
There is always a lots of alternatives walking though the road of love, like
temptations, lust, greed, lies, revenge....much more. You need to ensure
and clarify is this your Mr. Right?

2010-01-30 02:25:48 補充:
How to define Mr. Right? 1st you must agree with the true love guidance
as above,follow your heart go with your instinct. It always some signs or
clues to tell you.

e.g. as below : -

2010-01-30 02:27:08 補充:
1. heart beats extraordinary fast
2. electrify in 1st met or every met
3. in common
4. different feelings among others
5. two of a kind
6. being honest with you
7. destiny & fate

2010-01-30 02:27:52 補充:
To my own opinion, I don't think this is Mr. Right to you. It is because you
both always fights and jealous against each other. Most important is no
trust in between 2 of you.

2010-01-30 02:28:30 補充:
When trouble comes, you both didn't work it out together! Instead of a quick
breaking up or giving up relationship, nor getting excuses to pressure the other
side to make a inappropriate decisions!


I hope this could help and Good Luck!
2010-01-30 9:03 am
你地成日為d小事鬧交....同埋佢好小器,又容易呷醋~~
之後一次一次咁原諒佢,其實你原諒o左佢咁多次....
佢都無反省過,每次都係一d無聊小事鬧交分手...
繼而佢又哄番你....歷史係咁不斷重演~~~

鍾意佢果個女仔為o左留住先俾第一次佢...
而佢都唔值得你再同佢一齊...即使再一齊過都無幸福...
根本就無意思,思想一d都唔成熟,成個細路....
同埋都幾花心...小小事就鬧交分手...
2010-01-30 8:21 am
看了這麼多段,如果我是你,我就會馬上跟他分手因為他每一次也因小事而跟你鬧著說要分手,然後就馬上結識另一人.後來他們分手了他就找你去"墊底"立刻發送短訊說什麼"不要離開我...."等話令你"心軟";其中一些"被人攬住"等等的誤會他竟像個小孩般跟你耍性子.....
這些事發生後他給你的回應實在太幼稚了,我認為這些人太無聊了如果他是明白事理的話他就不會給你這些回應,對吧?
所以我認為你應立刻分手,讓所有人清楚知道'係你錯,係我飛你,唔到你話点就点!!!'
2010-01-30 8:11 am
E 位朋友,我真係鄧你唔低....一個禁既男仔感對你,你重一次一次感原涼佢,感樣佢係唔知道錯 ga !! 同埋個女孩已經比左第一次比佢,感你同佢一齊??
感我令願你同你前bf 下齊好過.......=] +油

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