what should i do?

2010-01-14 3:02 am
today, while I doing my homework on my laptop, my father said me 'did u go to the try out for basketball team?'and i said;' what?'; and he went in to his room and told mum and my father immediately went out. Then, mum asked me to go in and she said 'Bring me your ipod and i will confiscate it for a month.'; But i really don't want to join the basketball team and my parent are just kept on forcing me to join the team. If i don't join the team they will ask me ' so what activities are you going to join?' I think it's a bit of my father's fault, he should ask me do i want to join it, but not forcing me and he should not went to his room and asked mum's help. I really do not know what to do, please help me.

Q1: What should i do?

Q2: Should my parent confiscate my ipod for a month? Why?

Q3: Should my parent do that to me? Why?

Q4: Should my parent force me to do thing? Why?

Q5: Should I listen to my parent?

Q6: What should my father do?( should he ask me?)
更新1:

1. I did tell them that i hate basketball 2. They confiscated my stuff and i really don't want that to happen. my ipod is just my heart, i can't live without it.

回答 (2)

2010-01-14 3:10 am
✔ 最佳答案
if you really dont like basketball, you need to tell your parents...
you should also find out why they want you to join basketball...
to be honest, basketball is a good sport but if you don't like it, no one can force you to. Tell your parents what you would rather like (a different sport?)

I think it is difficult for them to stop confiscating your properties... at the end of the day, you are living under their care, and they are looking after you and providing you with pocket money (I'm just guessing)... so perhaps you just need more communicating with them and avoid similar arguments in the future so they won't confiscate your stuff.

No parent want to be nasty to their children... they probably do things for a reason that sometimes we just don't understand.

So just be honest and tell them what you think with your reasoning and you also try to understand where they are coming from.
2010-01-14 7:54 am

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