baby唔痴媽媽點算?

一、因為妳的孩子每天見最多的就是妳的工人，所以妳的孩子當然只會和工人一起玩耍和睡覺；
二、其實妳亦不用太擔心，因為妳孩子現仍在成長期，每一個期間都會有不同的學習對像，現時是工人，但過些日子可能是爸爸或媽媽，到時他便會轉為跟妳或妳丈夫；
三、若妳害怕孩子過份跟工人，那妳便要改變妳和孩子之間的相處，除了和他玩耍外，亦要給他一種感覺，我才是你的母親，否則日後孩子會認為工人才是他的母親，而這個叫媽媽的女人，只是每天下班到我家和我玩耍的阿姨。

It's very normal that your baby likes your maid more than you at this age because the maid is the person who takes care of him/her every day. The baby sees that person more and so he/she trusts that person. When your baby gets older, he/she will know you are his/her mom and nobody can replace your position. But still, you should try to take more time to bath your baby, feed your baby or tell bed time story with him/her. This will help to "improve the relationship". Like my daughter, she used to live with por por since she was borned. I only brought her home during weekends / holidays. Whenever I brought her home, she cried for por por. Seemed like I am the stranger. I cried every time when I saw her cried for por por. But now, she is 2 yrs old and I started bringing her home every night. She doesn't cry anymore and knows that mommy & daddy need to work and por por is only her caretaker. So, it's just a matter of time. Don't worry too much. :)

佢好正常.不要同ヱ人爭氣.要駡ヱ人不要在仔仔面前.目的唔係怕左工人而係被免同工人有拉力.仔仔怕左你覺得你才是惡人日後好難搞.對ヱ人好d.同仔仔多d抱抱帶佢去公園離開姐姐要獨立去街.等佢習慣同你都係安全.要慢慢試首次可以一齊去跟着叫姐姐靜靜走先.佢會好不安會喊.跟着你要答應佢比返姐姐佢.帶佢回家.要強調姐姐係幫手做家務一定要做完先同得你玩.慢慢仔仔會信你. 也可以藉口買野比姐姐等佢同你多d接觸.等佢滿心喜歡帶小禮物比ヱ人.佢會了解工人在家是要做野倍玩係媽媽.

我都有等仔仔講工人冇XXXX如洗潔精要去買比ヱ人買.其實帶佢公園玩陣先之後買小小野回家..佢大大吓會知道你都有權買野.姐姐要在家做野.

我的朋友曾有一個經驗,佢個仔都是痴工人,一唔見工人就喊,經細心觀察,原來工人在主人不覺間,幫仔仔做一些小動作(例如:掃耳仔,背脊,更有一些不雅的動作)令仔仔不覺間上癮,沒有她便扭計,一來工人只要湊仔,其他家務便不用做,二來你不可炒她,因個仔無佢唔得,你攪佢唔掂(希望你個工人無咁衰),可試放一個家人在家幫手睇仔,工人只做家務,隔一隔,都係個句,個仔是你生的,你要俾多的愛心和時間,免後悔太遲