Can life treat me better?

2009-11-17 6:42 am
Please? Nothing ever works out for me. Do I work hard? Yes, I do. Do peers and others think whether I work hard? Yes, they all do and can see. What do I get? Nothing. I'm tired of the these phrases: "keep trying," "work harder," "your efforts will pay at the end," and etc. Is it really so? No. Instead people just laugh at you when you screw up. If God can treat me a little better..........
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I do have a future plan and am working on it.

回答 (5)

2009-11-19 9:15 pm
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The key is to work "smart, not work hard...which I think you may have figured out by now.

Stop wasting your time and effort trying to please other people. Do things that make YOU happy. Don't depend on your actions to please other people, because someone along the way will either sabotage it or work even harder against you.
參考: Trust me, I've been where you are and in fact, I'm there right now.
2009-11-17 6:52 am
IMO...what you have to understand is that you are not like the other people you associate with. If you were like them, then you would be subject to the same insecurities they have and will have and the same trappings they currently have that you feel you want.

Life treats us better when we treat life better. Progression in life is about knowing who you are...your likes and dislikes, about understanding knowledge and wisdom...which comes at a very big price.

Once you do, all things desired come to you and you will accept them with the style and grace unknown to your peers because you will have stood the test of time and the trials by fire.

The greatest gifts are of the heart, all else follows from there. Keep your head up and email me if you feel the need.

Peace.
2009-11-17 1:28 pm
exactly what are you looking to get? what pay? maybe you should treat yourself better and quit blaming god... look man... life in itself can be a slow heavy burden if you so choose for it to be... quit living for rewards and just live...
2009-11-17 9:08 am
Everyone has hard lucks in his/her life but it does not ever mean that you start blaming on God. Its the symbol of looser persons. We should depend on our skills and efforts and we should have hope that our efforts are perfect, will surely give you reward. People will laugh you at that time when give up from your efforts and loose your hope from God. Only God has the solution of every thing and He always do best for us. A sincere advice that never blame to God and have faith in your abilities and God. Never loose hope. You will have a brighter future. Never pay attention to what people are saying.
參考: My experience.
2009-11-17 7:11 am
Stop blaming God. Maybe the problem is you. Okay you work hard, but are you leadership material? Are you unique or motivated to move up? Sometimes it's not what you do, but how you do it. Try coming up with some ideas to get more done in a given work day without overworking yourself; maybe efficient shortcuts to produce more in lower time.

How about lay out a 2 year plan with goals to achieve? This will help put everything in perspective. There is always something better, but you have to know to achieve it. So stop complaining because that will get you nowhere. Start researching. Get and a major goal and other minor goals. Knock one out at a time.


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