My ex-boyfriend tries to kiss me, why?

2009-11-15 5:56 pm
After we broke up we agreed to be friends. I really care about him even though the bf/gf thing didn't work out. Whenever I visit him he tries to kiss me, touch me, etc. I try so hard for him to see me strictly as a friend. Whenever he tries to touch or kiss me I always say I'M YOUR FRIEND you don't do that with friends. How do I get the message across? I don't want to kiss him because I don't want him to think of me as potential booty call. Plus he broke up with me, it's not like I was the one that let him go. He broke up with me because I would only go as far as kissing with him so he went for other girls to get that after we broke up.

Even though he acts like this I still care about him, he makes me smile and laugh, and I'm glad I'm still talking to him. Most other guys wouldn't be talking to a girl who didn't put out if they didn't like her right?

回答 (5)

2009-11-15 6:14 pm
✔ 最佳答案
he wants sex... he likes you , you broke up with him remember ?? he wanted sex with you and he is still after it. when he has sex with you, most likely he will dump you anyway.. so i would not allow him. you have set standards and u have set standards for a reason. if you are virgin maybe he wants u to lose your virginity with him... if you not he can't understand why you had sex with other guys and love him but don't with him.he might take you as a pushover 2 and is like oh come on... just for fun and then tricking you into getting with him again. because you was his girlfriend he feels tho u his ex he can still do all those things cause you once went out with him and even more so now because you are broke up and u are single.... tell him what about when i get someone do u think my new BF his gonna appericate this... if he just says . i don't care threaten him you will press charges because now it is like being took advantage of .. ( sexual harassment ) because he is your ex and your not willing this is sexual harassment . you could sue him for it... i am sure then he would not want to speak to you. but believe me he knows he should not kiss friends i am sure he don't do it with his other friends.... i mean he don't do it with his guys friends ( of course he don't) the only reason why he is doing it with you is because in his eyes your an attractive young lady he once dated and his still interested and because he knew u2 liked each other in the past he thinks he can act all as a couple kinda thing without it registrating now ur his ex now and u will be looking for someone else. but in a way being an ex has brought him a kinda closer realtionship of friendship... you have been together got close was in love... and because people can't switch their feelings off like the click of you fingers he is being very friendly and got a kinda love thing still going on.. maybe it will pass. he is just temporary tryin woo you back.. but all the options i said are available so it's up to you if you take my advice...
2017-03-04 6:56 am
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2009-11-15 6:01 pm
he probably just fooling around
does he have another gf now?
if yes, he is not a good bf
cuz if he has a gf and still trying to flirt with you or mabe other girls
he is a player.
2009-11-15 6:00 pm
Hes trying to get back with you, he likes you. But if its not working out as just friends, and he wont listen, then take a break from him, until he promises to stop
help?
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2009-11-15 6:02 pm
He still has strong feelings for you

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