唔通咁係虐兒??

其實你比人告左.
你應該去向法官講清楚你點解會去打佢.
你講晒你個仔做左d咩啦-o-~
吾知幫吾幫到你
希望做最佳(:

做現代 ge父母係好艱難架~~郁 d 就告父母虐待
生得出尼就梗係錫佢同埋希望佢成才啦!!
但係有 d 小朋友唔理好歹,完全將父母睇唔在眼內
香港 d 法例剩係識得講人權,無理過依家 d 靚仔咁難教
等佢地濫用人權,搵人權做擋箭牌
如果我係你我會俾佢去寄宿,等佢獨立,
話就話得十歲,但係佢地 ge 思想超越左佢地ge年齡
正一人細鬼大,唔想激氣,一於俾佢去寄宿
咁樣做唔等餘放棄,係等佢知道做父母係幾咁辛苦
我自己一直都係咁話,少少體罰一定要有
如果連教仔女ge權利都無,我寧願唔生

我好同情你，現時社會係矯枉過正，想教好仔女反而比人告，同時比咗好錯嘅信息啲小朋友，你睇下知識入面有幾多小朋友問咁可唔可以告父母，咁樣可唔可以告老師。

不過暴力係教唔好小朋友嘅，我有三個小朋友、11、8、6歲，我發現打係教唔到嘅，而我估你個小朋友有啲觀念上嘅錯誤，你去揾社工幫下手啦，再係咁落去會嬲死你自己。不過你嘅情況好輕微，唔會坐監嘅。

祝你揾到解決方法。

1,最核心問題係:教仔唔一定要用打..物極必反..你愈係打佢..佢愈會憎恨你..愈會唔聽你話..什至明知係錯都故意去做..你比人告左兩次虐兒都未知自己錯係邊..仲怪社會..難道你冇做過人地個仔/女?..用打ge方法對d 5、6歲ge細路可能會有效..一個10歲ge細路已經開始有自己ge諗法..你應該嘗試揾人傾下..睇下有冇其他方法可以令佢唔再偷野..
2.以我為例..我細個戈陣都經常偷父母錢去打機..每次叫父母買遊戲機/電腦比我..佢都經常以大話欺騙我...話升左中學就買比我..結果每次承諾都係謊言..我都已經習慣..唔再要求父母買遊戲機/電腦..所以就經常偷父母錢去打機..亦被父母知道好多次..一開始死口唔認..結果就打到認..之後如果偷錢被父母發現..會主動攤開手板比佢打..父母都知道打始終解決唔到問題..最後都係買左部電腦比我..自始我就冇偷錢..每次想要錢..都會主動問父母拎..同佢解釋點解要用錢..
3.我唔係想叫你買遊戲機/電腦比你個小朋友..小朋友見到同學/朋友有ge野..而自己冇會好善慕..會經常叫父母買野比佢..呢樣野好正常..而假如父母對小朋友ge要求每次都有應必求的話..亦有寵壞小朋友..
4. 你可以每日比小小零用錢比你朋友返學買下零食..再全家人一齊定立一d家庭規則、目標..每人輪流做下家務..假如達到某個目標..就有獎品..咁樣可以激勵小朋友上進..買部電腦係屋企..至少可以令小朋友唔會成日向外走..加上電腦已經變成學習上ge必須品..可以限定用額..但係唔好太小..如果唔係一樣會向外走..唔好禁止佢地打機..打機係小朋友ge正常行為..但每日唔好打超過兩個鍾..總之要比小朋友覺得留下屋企唔會冇所事事..
5.小朋友通常一開始都會反抗你命令佢做呢樣做戈樣..會覺得好辛苦..所以一開始最好比d甜頭佢..等佢做習慣..變成一種習慣..但又唔可以搞到佢見錢開眼..冇錢早頭..所以而+教小朋友..唔可以再好似你戈代咁樣..凡事都以打為先..以前社會冇而+咁多誘惑..做人父母..要多d留意觀察小朋友..落多d心思..話哂佢都係你個仔..我都明白你打佢係想佢好..知錯識改..但小朋友未必會咁諗..物極必反

其實虐兒係唔係應該要分呢?


"虐兒" 屬 <侵害人身罪條例>內嘅罪行. 內文係咁樣嘅:

香港法例第212章<侵害人身罪條例>第27條 - 對所看管兒童或少年人虐待或忽略:

任何超過16歲而對不足該年歲的任何兒童或少年人負有管養、看管或照顧責任的人, 如故意襲擊、 虐待、 忽略、拋棄或遺棄該兒童或少年人, 或 導致、 促致該兒童或少年人受襲擊、 虐待、 忽略、 拋棄或遺棄, 其方式相當可能導致該兒童或少年人受到不必要的苦楚或健康損害 (包括視力、 聽覺的損害或喪失， 肢體、身體器官的傷損殘缺， 或精神錯亂), 即屬犯罪. 循公訴程序定罪後, 可處監禁10年.

*紅色 highlight 部份就係 "虐兒" 嘅界定.

*黃色 highlight 部份就係最高刑罰.

一個想教好小朋友既媽媽要去坐監.而一個成日做錯野既小朋友可以冇事.咁樣係唔係俾左個錯既信息小朋友呢??係唔係大家應該關注虐兒呢個問題呢?

個問題系當時可能只有人見到你打小朋友 ,

而見吾到小朋友偷野 !

所以先會拉你 !

我都明白你既苦心，但打可以解决問題嗎？有d細路越打越反叛，我們都好關注虐兒既問題，雖然我唔知虐兒既定義，但覺得虐兒既定義好廣，但作為父母，有時雖然小朋友做錯左，那雙方都有責任，自己要諗下：點解小朋友越來越反叛呢？邊度出左錯呢？自己作父母平時有冇以身作則呢？自己有冇真正有耐性咁教過小朋友呢等等？還是接受事實吧，自己諗過一套既有效又不泄及虐兒的方法黎教你既小朋友吧。

Can I help you but I can only type English.

I am so sorry for you situation. I also have children and I can understand how you feel.

In Hong Kong, when I was a child 打小朋友 was OK. Even teachers would do that. Later it became illegal. Teaching children have many ways:
1. Sit down with your son and ask him why he did that. Why stealing? Why stealing money? Why he needs those money?
2. Explain to him that you and your husband have to work hard to make a living.
3. Explain to him that you cannot give him so much money unless he behaves and you can go to work harder to make more money to support him.
4. Tell him once he steals, he will have criminal record and he will not get good job. He may even end up in jail.

I feel so sorry that there are not too many good social workers to help you.

Besides, most people in Hong Kong do not have patient to educate children. Unless the children are born with good conduct, otherwise, they will be isolated and become even worse.

I shall pray for you and your family.