教我如何是好吧?愛情,工作,將來

佢話你冇目標,就係指你唔知自己強項喺邊,做緊兼職,搵唔到全職.你啱啱畢業,如果一直都冇計劃,就可能會咁.你可以同佢溝通多d.其實e+經濟先啱啱開始復甦,搵唔到長工係正常,但係你知自己嘅強項,興趣,可以長時工作,都唔介意嘅工,先可以收入相對穩定.
你可以同你女朋友商量,但冇人教到你點做,至多幫你留意邊度請人,叫你去試下啫.唔最好話女朋友,父母都係,見你搵唔到長工,或者份工唔係幾有前途,就會叫你進修,咁既然你唔想,係迫唔到.但如果你淨係知自己唔想點,唔知自己想點,人地就覺得你懶+唔成熟.所以你俾個限期自己,例如25歲前,搵個目標,可能買車,或者搵到份做得嚟嘅工,升職之類.

愛情 : 問題出在於冇溝通 ,

你女友想你讀書 , 吾表代你想 , 你系有權選擇點行條路

佢吾應該控制你 !

女友對你誤解 :

如果你冇上進心 , 你就吾去搵野做 , 做兼職

所以你想點 , 應該同佢傾 , 而吾系嘈 !

工作,將來 :

1) 學以至用 : 你大學系讀咩就搵咩工

2) 凡事都應該靠自己 , 要先 set 目標比自己 , 後努力 , 會事半功部

3) 吾好睇收入去搵 , 經濟吾容許你甘做 , 要睇自己專長 ,

做得好 : 自然可以升職加薪 !

你為左女朋友定無為左你0既前途又出呢個post?

如果係女朋友, 你一定好中意佢
1) 佢可能已經諗得好長遠先會咁緊張你0既前途
eg 打算同你一齊生活,結婚 etc
-> 佢咁為你, 為左佢, 你努力d啦

2) 佢都可能怕人地0既眼光
eg 怕屋企人,朋友話男朋友唔夠自己叻
-> 改變佢咁觀念, 佢中意0個個係你丫嘛

actually you still have a long way to go
it's just a start up
it doesn't mean anything of who you are now
it's what you are going to be
find a goal as soon as possibile and chase for it
you'll find you're growing

she loves you because who you are
but not who she wants you to be
tell her what you are doing for her and for you future
tell her you're trying your best

and finally, what subject did she study?
I don't believe someone can earn 20K once she's graduated in this economic diaster

23歲是十分之年青，不用太緊張，比啲心機增加自己的閱歷、試多幾份工(不過唔好份份工做一個半個月、要比啲耐心發掘工作興趣)，找尋適合自己的人生方向，同時今日的收入並不等如未來的發展。
而你同女朋友尚年輕，可以一齊就一齊，人生係不斷改變，兩個人要係改變中仍適合一起係好難嘅。

你先要問下你自己想做D咩[類型]既工,諗下自己d理想。或者文員都可以,文職比較好.....