guys like both, it's just a matter of figuring out when to play each role... i think that guys want a laid back down to earth girl that knows how to have fun and a girl that doesn't flip out and complain all the time.
sweet innocent girls sometimes attract the wrong type of man who see them as passive and sweet and naive enough to control and manipulate...normal guys like sweetness but they also like a girl who'll speak her mind and they won't be put off by that...if u're only sweet and innocent, then u'll just attract a guy who wants a doormat for a girl...