The atheist and the religious nut?

2009-10-13 9:52 pm
Okay, so there is this girl that I like, and I believe she likes me back. We were friends through High School, and well got in arguments every once in awhile, but I still considered her a close friend. Recently after graduating I was able to obtain her number, and I texted her. She talked to me through texts for the rest of the day. We hung out once since than. She is very busy all the time, so she hasn't gotten time to hang out again. The only problem is she is very religious, she is in a Christian Rock Band. Although she has never has mentioned such things around me, I know from her facebook. I have been hiding the secret that I am atheist (not many people know). I love her and can't stop thinking about her. I know what mess I will be getting myself into if I start having a relationship with her, but I just want to be with her. Besides opposites attract right? Please, just give me some opinions on what you think about this. She will always be my friend, but what am I to do?

回答 (3)

2009-10-13 10:17 pm
✔ 最佳答案
this depends on how she is with religion.
if she doesn't mind to have next to her a guy with other religion - or none at all - then it's perfect.

but if she doesn't... then... you know what the answer would be.
personally, i believe that faith shouldn;t be taken as a decisive part in a relationship, this matters the person itself only, not the people around her. the person knows in what she/he believes and that's it. no other complications.

but i don't know for example when you get married how it would be, if in a church and what will appear on the documents.

but anyway, ask her how she thinks in general about religion, and people in relationships that have different religions and if they should be or not together.

and you'll get your answer from her in your situation.
good luck, hope it will turn out good :)
2009-10-14 4:58 am
man..i recently got out of a relationship i'm atheist she is Christian

i'd say, unless you are willing to convert or she has no problems with being an atheist then do it..
but if not...stay out or you will probably get screwed over..

just a heads up for you
參考: experience
2009-10-14 4:57 am
You call her a nut and then you say that she will always be your friend. I wouldn't befriend you.

收錄日期: 2021-04-30 23:56:37
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091013135242AAxZ4kS

檢視 Wayback Machine 備份