如可令一個変心男人再次愛自己?
請給意見............我該如何做,不想放棄...........
男士請進,婚姻問題
2009-10-14 2:00 am
回答 (5)
2009-10-15 8:57 pm
✔ 最佳答案
想一個變心的男人再次愛自己,首先要清楚了解這男人為何會變心呢?除非他一開始就不是真正愛你,只是遊戲人間玩弄愛情的浪子,如果愛情已經穩定忽然又變心,通常不出以下兩點原因:
1,是自己有些地方令這男人不滿意,那就要自己盡量改善了!
2,是男人見異思遷,就要看看對手有什麼優點能夠搶走自己的男人了!
男女大家初次見面可能會比較注重外貌,但相處日久就要有溫柔的性格才可以留住男人的心了!
雖然外貌美艷但任性倔強的女人可能反會被外貌平凡而溫柔賢慧的女人搶去男人的,所以不要以為自己漂亮就對男人太任性呀!
如果你真的不想放棄他,只有委曲求全,盡量改善自己來迎合他的要求吧!
2009-10-15 19:33:39 補充：
既然自己都承認不懂溫柔,不會體諒他,為什麼還不願意去改善呢?
既然曾經告訴你初戀情人很關心他,這就等於暗示你不懂得如何去關心他了!
已經有七年的感情和可愛的女兒,如果不是有不能忍受的原因,正常男人都不會忍心毀滅自己辛苦所建立溫暖的家吧!
能夠白頭到老的夫妻,只是大家互相遷就容忍才會慢慢磨合!
兩夫妻本來就是不同的個體,各自有不同的性格,只有互相容忍體諒才可以和諧相處,如果男人每日辛勞負擔家庭重擔,仍然得不到妻子關懷體諒的話,就很容易受外面的引誘而有變心的耤口了!
如果你真的想留住他的心,就不理他會不會心軟都試試有些行動迎合他的需要,讓他知道你是關心愛護他,同時亦希望他愛護和維護家庭的完整呀!
2009-10-17 20:04:06 補充：
你有無搞錯呀?!
唉!唔怪得你話唔識點係關懷體諒咯!
你正係問要點挽回佢的心再愛你,佢受傷入院咁就唔使問都要多d去探佢啦!
人都唔去淨係打個電話問候就算,咁萛係老婆咩?
唔怪得佢話你煩咯!
早就應該煲湯去探佢啦,你真係點叫做關心都唔識咩?
做老婆梗係最少都接佢出院啦!
2009-10-18 07:39:37 補充：
人係需要互相關懷的,唔好只怪人唔愛你,咁你有無愛佢先?
點解唔主動d用行動去表示你都係好愛佢呢?
既然唔想放棄呢段感情,咁一定要讓佢知道你係關心佢同好愛佢至得呀!
2009-10-21 10:52:51 補充：
你地係夫妻呀,既然佢都肯同你說話,咁就大家面對面多d溝通啦!
同佢講句對唔住,趕唔到去接佢出院,問佢傷口復原情況點呀之類說話,呢d已經就萛係關心了!
對丈夫就當細路仔咁溫柔d問候佢啦,就萛朋友受傷去探人都要關心問佢覺得點呀!
夫妻一定要互相遷就,如果唔係有第三者,搞成咁可能真係你的態度令佢無法忍受吧!
2009-10-22 17:39:38 補充：
既然大家無爭執就無大問題啦,就因為你對佢太冷淡,從來無表示關心佢,亦唔識點安慰佢,夫妻變成可有可無咁,佢有煩惱時只好同朋友講啦!
因為你從來都沒有對他關懷和表示愛,使他感受不到家庭的溫暖,他心中便誤會你從未愛過他',認為你既然不愛他,不如讓他離去吧!
做了幾年夫妻當然唔同新婚愛得咁熱烈的,可能佢工作不如意就會情緒唔穩定了,現在你盡量關心佢同聆聽佢說話就做對了,只要佢感受到妻子的關懷愛護,知道你真是愛他的,就一定不會再說要走的了!
2009-10-20 10:01 am
I think the challenge started from your opening question …如可令一個変心男人再次愛自己?
If you read it again to yourself, I am sure you would have found the answer to your own question.
If you have already recognize “the man has already changed”, and has already connected with another woman, an old fling, why do you want to fight an uphill battle? A man wanted to leave in spite of a 7 year marriage and a daughter; he is not someone you want to hang on. You admitted that you had faults, did he not, too? Yes, you can change to better yourself in time. But in a relationship or marriage, you need the understanding and support of the other half. I do not think you have the backing from this man. Remember the marriage vows you two took? He is too selfish and has not loved you. He would rather walk away from a family he helped to create and his own daughter. What kind of man is he?
The opposite of love is indifferent. He is there now. You cannot change your behavior overnight, even emotionally you feel you can. My advice is to re-evaluate the situation carefully. Talk to some of your older and wiser friends, best of luck to you.
pks
If you read it again to yourself, I am sure you would have found the answer to your own question.
If you have already recognize “the man has already changed”, and has already connected with another woman, an old fling, why do you want to fight an uphill battle? A man wanted to leave in spite of a 7 year marriage and a daughter; he is not someone you want to hang on. You admitted that you had faults, did he not, too? Yes, you can change to better yourself in time. But in a relationship or marriage, you need the understanding and support of the other half. I do not think you have the backing from this man. Remember the marriage vows you two took? He is too selfish and has not loved you. He would rather walk away from a family he helped to create and his own daughter. What kind of man is he?
The opposite of love is indifferent. He is there now. You cannot change your behavior overnight, even emotionally you feel you can. My advice is to re-evaluate the situation carefully. Talk to some of your older and wiser friends, best of luck to you.
pks
2009-10-17 2:17 am
2009-10-16 12:37 am
你咁都唔明, “轉另一個方式去愛你們”不是“love”個種愛。
其實我覺得點都好,千其不要炒炒閙閙, 一切順其自然, 佢話想點就點, 但要同佢廣明(廣明前最緊要同佢廣明你會改呀之類,如佢很比機會你改,代表佢對你重有愛,重想同你一齊生活, 當決定了就返不到轉頭
*因我老公同我廣過,男人的心態會係咁:當一個男人不再愛自己的太太時,太太做什麼都無用,但當一個男人好愛自己的太太,就算個太太so bad, 佢都會依然對佢好好。
其實我覺得點都好,千其不要炒炒閙閙, 一切順其自然, 佢話想點就點, 但要同佢廣明(廣明前最緊要同佢廣明你會改呀之類,如佢很比機會你改,代表佢對你重有愛,重想同你一齊生活, 當決定了就返不到轉頭
*因我老公同我廣過,男人的心態會係咁:當一個男人不再愛自己的太太時,太太做什麼都無用,但當一個男人好愛自己的太太,就算個太太so bad, 佢都會依然對佢好好。
2009-10-15 11:24 pm
ok..Lily
u married for 7 years and now he asked u to let him up..
it's not possible to own him again if he get any other gigirl.
If u trying to make any big offer to satifried him.I think is didn't work
good luck
sorry that I can't type chinese,
my email [email protected]
2009-10-15 15:25:08 補充：
ok..Lily
u married for 7 years and now he asked u to let him up..
its not possible to own him again if he get any other girl
If u trying to make any big offer to satifried him.I think is didnt work
good luck
sorry that I cant type chinese,
my email [email protected]
u married for 7 years and now he asked u to let him up..
it's not possible to own him again if he get any other gigirl.
If u trying to make any big offer to satifried him.I think is didn't work
good luck
sorry that I can't type chinese,
my email [email protected]
2009-10-15 15:25:08 補充：
ok..Lily
u married for 7 years and now he asked u to let him up..
its not possible to own him again if he get any other girl
If u trying to make any big offer to satifried him.I think is didnt work
good luck
sorry that I cant type chinese,
my email [email protected]
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