有冇人係過得一日得一日....好頹廢??

2009-10-10 7:18 pm
我19歲...男仔...自從退左學開始...就成日留係屋企
好似過得一日得一日咁....朋友又冇乜...屋企又對自己唔好..自己又冇自信....做咩都做唔成....搞到依家要咁...好似等死咁...又搵唔到自己目標係咩.....但有時寂寞又想識返d朋友陪下自己傾下計....唉...我都唔知自己點解會咁....有冇人都係咁樣架....???
我真係好想搵人傾下....希望你地可以幫下我
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回答 (9)

2009-10-11 10:05 pm
✔ 最佳答案
首先,雖然唔清楚你退學既原因,
但你會唔會考慮讀其他自己有興趣既課程或者證書?

其實朋友同自信都係通過同外界接觸而得到的,
如果你唔去接觸外面既社交圈子,
就比較難增加及提升你既朋友同自信。

因為你仲年輕,所以讀書會係最簡單既途徑讓你與外界接觸。

如果你唔想讀書既話,我唔會建議你番工住,
反而會建議你去搵社工幫一幫你,
其實搵社工係有個有經驗既人可以幫到你,
話你知你可以點做,有d咩路可以行。

而且社工會接觸到唔少同你有同類問題既青少年,
你可以透過社工開既小組,接觸到類同既青少年。

我知道係因為我曾經有跟社工做過義工,
社工開小組比d人一齊完成一個目標,好好玩,又識到人。

至於係邊度搵呢d服務,就要根據你果區既服務中心分佈狀況,
如果你搵唔到可以話我知,我幫你手搵。

記住,如果你想改變自己,一定要踏出第一步同外界接觸,
無論你既原因係咩,你都記住一定係會有人聽呢講野,
因為呢個世界仲有輔導員、社工等等呢類人,
佢地可以透過佢地對社區既認識同專業智識幫到你。
2009-10-13 7:34 am
Hi! are you woke?you can't like that? and go.!! thinking a..bout your self? then..you know it?if you Die..the,...? how a..bout your Frimily..thinking you..just so so /Stupied..ok...what ever.you are so so..dump!! just thingking a..bout?it?? please..bye.
2009-10-11 1:55 am
醒醒
盡快清醒
知不知你在浪費生命!
2009-10-10 10:07 pm
你只得19歲閒悠悠係屋企﹐家人緊係唔鍾意啦﹐
唔好嘥時間啦﹐去讀吓再培訓﹐有津貼﹐讀完
又幫你揾嘢做﹐好過攤係屋企等米路啦......
一係就讀書﹐一係就出嚟做嘢﹐有寄托﹐有D$
屋企先至會尊重你O架!
唔好係網上找朋友啦﹐淨係傾得一﹐二次﹐有MUG
用 JACK﹐有時間出嚟做吓義工﹐係果度識吓D朋友
重實際啦﹐係咪?

DD係成長必經GE階段﹐個個都係咁O架﹐你唔好灰心!

努力D啦!
2009-10-10 9:07 pm
真係咁悶~~試下做義工啦~~~反正你咁閒~~做啲野允實下自己~~
2009-10-10 9:06 pm
你可以 :
1) 讀書 : 港專 / 青年會 / 勞工處 : 見青 + 毅進
2) 搵長工 / partime
3) 考牌 : 車 / 保安 / 教練
只要有書讀 / 有工做 , 朋友 / 家人 / 信心就會反番黎 !
要珍惜時間 !
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2009-10-10 7:44 pm
whhat happen to you?Where you live?Why you donot give study? Is it in your study you donot underestand make you unhappy?Is it in school somethings make you unhappy.I will add you in msn talk with u.I hope you will no decide go to die.You can your life,you must remember.Why donot you try go to church or job some activity to have more friends?
2009-10-10 7:30 pm
I'm so sorry for you young man/

I can understand how you feel. You are not the only one. There are many students unemployed after school. Staying at home will make you more depressed. Going out, you do not have money to spend.

When you do not have money, you will not have friends. I dare to say, it is reality. Once you have money, you can call your friends to go for lunch, tea, movie and so on.

In US, we can go to church and no one will ask us for money if we do not have. In Hong Kong, I do not know if you can do that.

If you need to find some friends, you can do some volunteer work. (I know in Hong Kong, you still need to have money)

But I can suggest you to go to find some work, even they pay you very little money, take it. Even if you make $50 or $100 a day, it is still better to sit at home with $0. income.

I started off with $300.- a month when I finished school while my school friend make $500.- $700.

Later I made $2000 while my friends were still making $1000 only. Because I never give up.

Take care. If you want to chat, you can look for my email and I can give you some suggestions.
2009-10-10 7:27 pm
你唔好 "好似等死咁", 直情要早 D 死. 信我啦. 搵個方法搞點佢, 是一個好的選擇. 記著填捐贈器官卡至死呀, bye-bye.

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