OK get her to your house:
get her in your bedroom... give her some lingerie, light some candles, and then go in the bathroom and close the door... put on a red thong and then flatten her out on the bed and just when she's ready to kiss, you PUNCH HER IN THE FACE
she is sending you signals
when I first got heavy with my boy friend we would make out
I would sit in his lap kissing him and slowly grind my rear against his crotch. I could feel him geeting excited and then would press hard and release the pressure.
I could tell as he got more excited
it was a real turn on for both of us