MY MAN WANTS ME TO LET HIM BE "A MAN"?

2009-10-08 4:19 am
MY MAN LIKES THAT I AM AGGRESSIVE IN BED BUT HE HAS RECENTLY SAID HE WANTS ME TO BE A LITTLE LESS AND LET HIM JUST BE IN CONTROL AND PLEASE ME.IM NOT COMPLAINING,I JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO NOT SHOW HOW MUCH HE TURNS ME ON.IM NOT REAL GOOD AT BEING LAZY IN BED. ANY SUGGESTIONS ? PLEASE
更新1:

thanks for the advise everyone.i guess i have to be less of a scorpio and not be in control all the time.

更新2:

for my oh my.. he does want me to sit on his face.

回答 (9)

2009-10-08 4:37 am
✔ 最佳答案
You can meet in a common middle ground. Sit on his face. He can still please you. You can still explore your aggressive side.

If he complains, just give him a good spanking. ;p
2009-10-08 11:23 am
Let him tie you up. That way you wont have a chance to take over.
2009-10-08 11:23 am
he's not asking you to be lazy LOl
just let him do this thing ;) lol
2009-10-08 11:37 am
Naturally, me are the ones who are the ones in control in bed. You being the aggressive one could be making him a little bit surprised. Ease off a bit and don't be so energetic.
2009-10-08 11:31 am
He's so irresistable that you dominate him in bed. That doesn't make any sense. Stop being so dramatic about it. You like to take control during sex and there's nothing wrong with that. He's simply asking you to let him take over sometime. Just sit back and let him do what he wants. I think his request was simple enough to understand or is not acting like a dominatrix somehow too complicated for you?
2009-10-08 11:29 am
tell him youl do anything he ask (ANYTHING) if he feels you being overly dominant ....maybe get some handcuffs ;)
2009-10-08 11:27 am
well is healthy if both take the control once a while not always and u are doing that all days ,maybe he is getting boring that always u took him and dont let him participate ...

I think you should try and tell him that he tie u up in bed ,he will have the control!
you can dress up like a school girl in that way he will feel again that he has the control
and maybe u need to be more sweat than agresive ! ..remember changes are good! =)
2009-10-08 11:27 am
you don't have to be "lazy" to show your man that you're turned on. i'm also guessing that when he says he likes that you're aggressive in bed, what he's really saying is that he likes that you're good in bed.

pretend he's your Master and you're his sex slave and the rule is that you have to do anything he wants you to do (remember, it's just pretend). turning you on is what turns him on...so just keep this in mind and let him please you. show your pleasure by making noise and letting him know how great he is.

he will still want you to reciprocate....but for now he's telling you that he wants to lead. so let him!
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2009-10-08 11:27 am
Just lay back one night and focus on what you feel, not what you do to him. Let him seeeerve you. Mwahahaha! jk that was creepy.

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