Things to say to an ex girlfriend on the phone?

2009-10-05 3:04 pm
She gave me her number last week and I didn't kno when to call her but I think I will today. I suck at phone convo and have not spoke to her on the phone in 2 years. What do I say? what if I wanted to bring up a random story or ask her a question how could I bring this up without sounding odd?

回答 (15)

2009-10-05 3:12 pm
✔ 最佳答案
"Listen, sorry to cut you short but I've gotta run. It was great to hear from you again. If you want to talk some more, give me a call next week or something - but this week's pretty shot for me. Cool?"
2009-10-05 3:24 pm
Why do you want to call your ex after so long and why did she give you her number. I cannot get around the reasons why people do this. If you really want to call her then call, say hi ask how she is and take it from there.
2009-10-05 3:09 pm
Make sure that you've moved on from the relationship completely 100% before calling her. If ya'll want to be friends then converstaion will flow as it did when ya'll dated. and for your story or question you could just say "how about..." thats how I do it. G'Luck
2016-04-29 10:05 am
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2009-10-05 3:33 pm
Good Bye! What are you to her now, a rebound because she is someone else's ex now? Tell her you called because she asked you to. Find out what she has on her mind, and why she asked you to call her. Getting back together is a lesson in futility, if it didn't work the first time what makes you think she changed all of a sudden? A person is what they are, and you can't erase a leopards spots. Hanging on to ex's isn't a good idea in any ones book. From the ages of 13 or 14 until your out of high school you are going to have many ex's, do you want them all hanging around? Ex's mess things up when you get into new relationships, especially if your new frail knows about them. A new girl will view the ex your hanging on to as her competition, and think that if you still have feelings for your ex then what are you doing with her? So now you have another ex. Looks isn't everything, never judge a book by it's cover. Pick a girl by her actions, personality, good grades in school, honesty, dependability, etc., you have to choose what you want - quality or quantity? If you go for pretty air heads, you wind up with ex's. Air heads don't know what they want or where they're going, they have mood swings and change their minds a lot. Look for serious, matter of fact girls, wishy-washy don't cut it. Good Luck!
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2009-10-05 3:12 pm
Wait do you still like her? Or do you have hatred inside?
You can just call and say “hey whassup? Everything ok for you recently?” after updating, go on to some recent buzz like movies, music, books, artists, trend, tv shows, parents, school life, your wishes, your problems. Add some jokes too; it really makes a girl feel calling you again. If you’re planning to mend it just care more about her. Like hey the weather is changing, keep yourself warm! Before you hang up. Or if ur still blazing just talk to her like you talk to a guy friend.
Good luck! : P
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2009-10-05 3:12 pm
Only bother if you want to get back with her. Other wise, dont call her. You'll be tempted to re-hash the past. I've no idea why she's suddenly got the urge to chat after 2 years, most likely she has had a bad break up and wants to lean on you for a bit. Use you to make herself feel better. I dont think it could be for a good reason!
2009-10-05 3:09 pm
just ask her how shes been doing youknow, the normal stuff


hows life
what are you up to lately
any new job
hows school going
hows your family been doing
anything exciting


normal things! =]
2009-10-05 3:09 pm
dont call her. Your a free man now. just have fun. dont go crawling back man. let her call you.
2009-10-05 3:09 pm
just ask her how things are with her and a convo should spark up.

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