Split up with my boyfriend last month but i still feel so alone.?

[匿名]

2009-09-13 6:55 pm

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You were so attached that now you're separated you feel like something's missing. You've set yourselves free, learn how it is not to be attached and to be alone. Don't confuse aloneness with loneliness. Aloneness is a positive thing, you get to find and learn about yourself. What you really feel and what you really want. Loneliness means you're dependent on another person for your happiness like you have no power to live life by yourself. Your life is yours to create. It's also in your mental attitude. Learn that you cannot hold on to anything. Even if a couple gets married one of them will eventually die first and leave the partner. Nothing is forever. Start afresh, it's all up to you.

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[匿名]

2009-09-13 7:11 pm

That you feel alone after a break-up is normal. Perhaps it is even good to feel free of the reasons that caused your break-up to be necessary. Next time take a little longer to love someone, get to know that you did not make the same wrong choice. Think about the things that are important to you. Date more than one person so you can compare your feelings for each one. See the best in all the people that are closest to you, the ones you love the most. then choose what you really like about them and look for that in others. Best wishes

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[匿名]

2009-09-13 6:53 pm

Well you could be feeling alone because you're accustomed to spending so much time with him and being in the presence of another person for so long. If you know you are done wit him, try to move on and just make close friends who together can fill that gap of loneliness for you. But if you feel that he was the only guy that filled that for you, you should give him another chance. (Unless you know he has moved on.) If this is the case, find another guy who you think could do it for you. It doesn't necessarily have to be a boyfriend just a close friend of yours until you think you want to officially move on.

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[匿名]

2009-09-13 6:52 pm

like alot of people said get another boyfriend or hang out with family more or go out with friends alot more just try to be around other people more

參考: my mind and my life

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jayCEE

2009-09-13 6:52 pm

yeh same but girlfriend lol it's hard i know..
u feel that way because u miss having someone, loving someone, and spending ALOT of time with him
and now u guys r broken up, and you don't/can't do those things anymore, u feel alone because u r single now lol
go hang out with ur friends! go out moreee

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[匿名]

2009-09-13 6:52 pm

don't rush it. my last boyfriend i was with for 3 years...and we broke up and i still felt alone after 5 months. takes time.
just do a lot of things to preoccupy yourself. go out on group dates or just with the girls, or even a solo date

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[匿名]

2009-09-13 6:51 pm

Obviously you will feel lonely...You've been together till now and you broke up.It is very natural.Just try to be with your friends or family or keep yourself busy 24*7.That is the best way to get rid of loneliness

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[匿名]

2009-09-13 6:51 pm

that's natural....honestly, my girl and i broke up back in college...and i swear, for a little over a year, i just didn't even want to date anybody else or anything....and i felt real lonely for awhile....but it'll pass....not to sound corny, but time really does heal all...so good luck...and my only advice is, don't get back with your ex or jump into a new relationship just bc you are feeling lonely...take time to figure things out

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[匿名]

2009-09-13 6:51 pm

well if you were with him for a while it is probably because you dont have anyone to really talk to or call when your bored. spend more time with friends until you are completely over being single

hope this helps! :]

參考: me! ;]

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[匿名]

2009-09-13 6:50 pm

Go out on a date with someone else.

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Split up with my boyfriend last month but i still feel so alone.?

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