help please, relationship help!?

well your single so try it and take a chance

and girls i have a question specifically the white ones
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090912091531AAwP4XE

You want to go back to a guy who went after one of your closest friends! What do you want, for him to start doing some of your relatives next? This guy only cares about what he wants and if you offer yourself up to him, he will go for it. The question is, do you want to be his backup plan or side dish or do you want someone who will respect you and make you a priority ? You choose.

We're in the same boat, though my situation is a little more complicated.

My first relationship was with a guy who was my friend, I've knew him through school and other friends. The main problem though, he was friends with the same people I was-which is a problem. He tried to get closer to some of my friends but then just decided to try with me...it didn't do much.

The thing about guys dating your friends is that there is a limit to communication..or a real relationship in general because there is a lot of "he said, she said". You need to make sure that the guy is isolated from your friends, make sure that he knows what he wants: okay? Make sure that you do too..and it's not just this little jealousy flip.

good luck!

well my first reaction was nooooo!!! but hey if u dont mind being wit sumone who slept wit one of ur "friends" and ur cool wit that whole situation then i say make ur descision and go for it just remember if he brakes ur heart u cant exspect anyone to feel sorry for u!! cause u pretty much already know..

Sure, I don't see why not.

listen to your heart.
nobody can tell you whats right or whats wrong.
its ur decision. your the one who feels the way you do for him.

nahhh go have fun

Yes. but just remeber why you broke up?

No.