我唔想比朋友{巢}我d野, 唔知點開口..

2009-09-02 6:26 am
我個好朋友黎親我屋企都會拎我d野尼睇..
有好多野我唔想比佢睇,因為我都有私隱..
有d簿寫左我d心情日記呀戈d...
唔係好想比人知道,就算好朋友都係...
因為都幾無面下=______=
但係佢睇得好自然, 佢無啦啦會入我房左睇右睇.
見到戈度有簿又拎黎睇 , 總之佢見到有野就拎黎睇,
又拉開我個櫃筒睇= =
我又唔好意思話佢wor,咪唔出聲囉..
我可以點做拎佢唔再拎我d野尼睇呀??
我去佢屋企我會唔好意思拎人d野尼睇..
但佢好自然咁去睇..
點樣去同佢講又唔損害友誼??
又唔會令佢以後都唔敢黎我屋企???

麻煩了
更新1:

有時避免唔到.. 如果我 一早知佢上尼我實會收埋d野.. 但係多數上尼都係無約定, 通常係我地出出下街覺得好悶.. 條街好熱等等.. 多數都係我地1齊出街..無地方去.. 就會一齊上我屋企坐咁樣.戈時就會避都避唔切= = 又唔想係佢面前收埋戈d野. 唉- -

回答 (4)

2009-09-02 8:11 am
✔ 最佳答案
我同你唔同...我會直接阻止、拒絕佢掂我唔想比佢掂既野..
另外都係因為我朋友比較有禮貌會問左我先..
不過為左唔想比人睇私人野而買個櫃或者左煩右煩好無謂..
因為明明阻止到....
只要你有禮貌平心靜氣同佢講你做朋友既底線...
我相信佢唔會嬲....
佢唔懂得禮貌...無問過你先...就係佢唔岩..
你可以趁呢個機會指出佢有呢得缺點...
當然唔可以係教訓,,因為你唔係人地爸媽
因為太好朋友就咁做始終唔岩...
幾friend都好...之間都要存在禮貌
否則,朋友關係好快玩完...
情人之間都要禮貌何況朋友?
如果佢咁都嬲你既話.....
在我立場我會覺得呢個朋友做唔做都無所謂!
至於點講呢...?
例如:「私人野,唔好睇啦~」
或者用D幽默D既方法講
「我嗲D媽咪都無睇過嫁!!」「你8爪魚黎?咁手多既~^^」
咁樣就會好好多....當然表情唔好嬲啦...
我諗聽到咁係人都識做啦-_-"

2009-09-02 00:15:58 補充:
仲有....私隱野都係收好比較好..唔見左或者比到人睇就唔好啦!!
收係D難拎D既地方.....
同埋請朋友上屋K都係睇緊D好...果個始終你屋企...
你更加有權叫佢唔好入你房...
一句講晒,啊爸啊媽唔比入房,,,
因為無論你定你家人既野,唔見左都唔好既=)
2009-09-02 8:36 am
你D簿你應該一早收好佢床下抵,下次你再見到佢巢你D野嫁時候,你應該同佢講,
..你夠竟想搵咩呀,你想要咩你同我講,我囉俾你,但你唔好亂巢呀,我屋企成日唔見野嫁,
你咁同佢講佢都唔會好意詩再巢野囉,如果你唔出聲人地以為你無所謂,你千奇咪種慣佢呀。
2009-09-02 7:50 am
最好方法就係習慣性將唔想俾人睇到嘅野放入有鎖嘅櫃.
(無櫃有鎖....咪買一個囉..)
2009-09-02 6:55 am
A good friend should respect others privacy. There are always lines that one should not cross. Would suggest that you put away all your personal staff before your friend's visit. Ignore your friend's queries regarding where your staffs are but at the same time treat them well as before.

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