唔識真係我錯咩?

2009-08-22 7:15 pm
我同我男友一齊左半年
開頭果時佢叫我唔好同男仔講野
之後有次學校陸運會
得我1個女仔同成堆男仔食飯
佢同第2個傾計
所以我同個識左好多年既fd傾計
佢又嬲我
之後好番啦
我見佢同女仔玩得太埋
我叫佢唔好玩咁埋
佢又嬲
總之經歷左好多事
一向佢話事
去邊度佢決定
做乜都係佢話
佢要我點做就點做
之前前日我同佢搭地鐵
我同佢係坐既
見到有位老人家冇位
我讓座比佢坐
之後佢嬲我
我係咁哄佢
佢只係講左句
"我唔鍾意你咁自把自為,你鍾意點咪點囉"
本身話事權都唔係我度
佢就話我自把自為
讓個座比老人家姐
係唔係真係有錯先
而家真係好人當賊辦
你地覺得
係我錯定佢錯?
佢係咪好冇道理先?

回答 (10)

2009-08-22 8:50 pm
✔ 最佳答案
我就覺得你沒錯.

如果他只是''撒嬌'',那麼你哄哄他就成了.
但現在照你說的情況就像是你做什麼事也要經他同意.

但愛情呢打野真係好難講,
有可能係你做了別的事惹怒了他,
或是他剛巧不高興...所以就發脾氣...
也有可能只是一時之間衝口而出罷了.

原因千奇百怪,我想只有你才會知道整個過程.如果我亂比意見你,就真係分分鐘害死你.我只能建議你要想一想當天的細節,例如:
男朋友是不是當天已經有些不開心才叫你出來,還是他之前對你十分好,不過你讓座後才發脾氣?他入車時及坐在你旁邊時態度,神情是怎樣的呢?
男朋友平時的言行舉止說明他是個怎樣的人呢?他喜歡及不喜歡做什麼事呢?
觀察是十分重要的,尢其是女生,不過不要太精明了,事關男人不喜歡太聰明的女人.

如果撇開別的不說,我就會認為女朋友善良,樂於助人是一件好事來的.

不過他說:"我唔鍾意你咁自把自為,你鍾意點咪點囉"
這一句其實可能已經反映了你不喜歡你自己話事,你希望你做的事都經他同意,
他覺得你很多時都做一些事都不經他同意,也就是他口中的自把自為.

愛情是令人盲目的,我認為你應該自己想清楚,外人是很難幫你的.

如果什麼也不說,我認為你讓座是正確的.
而且我也贊成女性應該有自己的自主權,就算你不斷地聽他的話來維持這段感情,你會十分辛苦,他的感覺也會告訴他這段感情的根本是不快樂的,雖然這段感情的表面維持得很好,但他的憯意識也會令他感到這段感情很勉強,很窒息.

你應該有自己的主見.不應該下下比你男朋友''食''住.

我建議今次的事就算了,
不過你自己應該給自己一個底線,
真真真真真真真的受不了時就該跟他溫和地''攤牌''了.

如果你有事的話就留言吧,我會再回來看的.
2009-08-23 2:41 pm
你男友真是好小氣呀!
我想你一定好多時都“就慣”他啦!
你座比老人家坐,他就生氣!
今次你不好哄他啦!等他自己反省啦!
2009-08-23 8:51 am
佢都幾大男人wo
其實問題只有一個..而且係大問題
就係你地性格不合..忍受唔到就分手-3-得呢條路揀
2009-08-23 7:51 am
你男朋友太唔識諗啦
讓坐俾老人家係我地呢d後生仔女應該要做ge
佢唔應該嬲你..
你1個女仔同成堆男仔食飯呢個問題
你如果拉多個女仔同你去我諗會好d
你地有問題應該好好咁傾下..
你地始終仲愛對方唔想大家搞到咁嫁嗎
佢嬲你姐係仲緊張你啦..有得傾ge
先要叫你男友心平氣和咁聽你講野先
因為你男友d脾氣真係幾火爆..
你呢d問題絕對唔應該咁就搞到分手的
仲愛對方ge就要繼續係埋一起:)
hope i can help u~
2009-08-23 7:36 am
ne d仔要唔要都算la!!!!
你地有咩就心開見成咁講清楚la....
你e+咁樣你都唔開心la...
佢d反應又唔知點咁...分手同一齊根本就冇分別...
佢可能因為你好蝦...所以就一直都對你好衰..
ne d全部都唔係你ge錯黎ga...
相要信自己可以活得更好...搵到一個比佢更好ge人丫!!
2009-08-23 12:25 am
ge錯 , 如果佢係愛你 , 佢就應該 , 改掉壞習慣 , 但你不可以同

佢分手 , 因為佢係着緊你 , 但佢着緊得你好緊 , 不懂給你自由同

安全感 , 或許 , 你可以加我msn :

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2009-08-22 8:25 pm
好明顯好多野都係佢做得你唔做得和
咁唔公平既?
拍拖都咁點過下半世呀?
我覺得要同佢講清楚
你讓坐俾老人家係一定要既
你朋友咁都嬲係冇公德心
你要即時同佢講呢D係公民責任
睇佢點同你講
解釋左都嬲既話你真係要諗下喇
佢人品其實有問題囉
做朋友第一要人品好丫嘛
如果都冇改善既就要諗下未來佢係唔係真係適合你自己
有一類人會係想自己乜都唔駛理俾人指揮既
但你寫得出來應該你自己都覺得有問題唔係咁對路啦係咪?
雖然人誰無過但知錯不改就……
2009-08-22 8:08 pm
我覺得你無錯囉= =
你好心讓d老人家坐...咁都罵你= =
佢自己同d女仔傾得咁埋又唔見你罵佢= =
呢d人唔好同佢一齊啦= =
不過如果你真係中意佢既話...你可以同佢講你既想法睇下佢會唔會改囉._.
不過無論你點諗我都會支持你的._.v
2009-08-22 7:40 pm
I just don't think it's your fault
you talk to boys
but he also did the same
[talk to girls]
in my opinion,if your boyfriend can do that
so why can't you do that
Ithink you can ask him why
Also you give the seat to the old people
and so he said you ''自把自為''
but give a seat to old people
is the thing that we learnt at p.1
however your boyfriend didn't say you were helpful
but thinks that you are wrong
then i think he was so selfish
he just considers himself
and you must listen to him
so that he's not a good boyfriend
and not suitable to be a boyfriend
i don't think people will need a boyfriend like that
i think you can try to talk to him
tell him your feelings
as lovers
you need to respect your boyfriend/girlfriend
and consider his/her feelings
and so
if you boyfriend doesn't change
after you talk to him
then
i think you can 分手 with him

that's my suggestions to you
Hope it can help you~~~


Goood luck!!!
2009-08-22 7:39 pm
呢d人飛佐佢好過啦!!
同埋我想問你幾碎!?!?
如果係讀緊小學or中學就飛啦!!
唔係講笑,,呢d人同你一齊你會覺得好辛苦!
同埋請問你有冇睇惡魔在身邊!?
主角係讀緊大學拍拖的..大約19碎,,
咁先會有好結果!!
我之前都有中2人,,
但係睇左呢套戲之後,,
我都決定佐到大學先拍拖,,
所以話,,你咁早拍拖無好結果,,
會令自己好hurt..
如果你咁嬲佢,,
証明你都有小小唔順佢意,,
佢又唔中意你自把自為,,
我覺得佢都有唔据你,,
咁樣係埋一齊有咩意思姐!?
係你錯定佢錯??
我唔知點答你,,
唔係錯唔錯ge問題,,
而係你地之間ge感情已經縮落佐..
你求其做d乜佢都會反對
你又要就住佢..
咁樣你覺得系埋一齊開心咩!?
佢又成日同女仔傾喝
你都好唔開心ga啦
你都同佢講
佢又嬲..
咁佢都好中意同女仔一齊姐
成日同女仔一齊好容易變心ga!!
你都系小心d好..
或者你大膽d同佢講清楚你心裏面ge唸法
睇佢有咩反應
如果佢知道自己錯了,,
對你太多要求了
就會同你say sorry,
好好一齊過生活
但系如果佢仲執迷不悟,,
咁我勸你都系飛佐佢啦,,
廢事為呢d人流眼淚呀!!

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唔好意思,,上面講d野可能好直接,,
我都唔知點解自己對呢d題咁大反應-0-
選唔選我做最佳我無所謂.__.
希望可以幫到你啦 x)

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