i have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over a year and i love her more than anything but on the first few days of out relationship she cheated on me, i did not find out about this for a few months after but chose to stay with her.
the thing is i never really got to show her how heartbroken i was and ever since i found out it has been taboo too speak about it. she will be going to university in september and i wont see her for weeks at a time and the little bit of trust i have regained in her is slowly dissapearing as i am getting very paranoid.
i dont want too lose her as i have never felt like this about someone, as i couldnt bear to cheat on her. i just dont know what to do.
can i trust my girlfriend again?
2009-08-11 4:27 am
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2009-08-11 4:09 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Was the first few days you mention a discussed start of a proper relationship or had you just been on a couple of casual dates. If it was official so to speak as in you had agreed you were exclusive then her behaviour was not good. However if you hardly knew each other and the grey area of "are we a couple or not?" was there then I would forget it. If it had been a couple of months ago or something like that I would be upset. If all else is good in your relationship is good and has progressed well over the year don't make a huge deal out of it.
2009-08-11 7:08 am
No she lie you men she have an other one
2009-08-11 4:50 am
I've been in relationships where a partner has cheated and afterwards the trust is no longer there. Its not worth spending every second worrying and slowly taking away her freedom because of it. I would especially dump her if she is going to college which is the drunken orgy capital of the world.
2009-08-11 4:36 am
i say leave her because she will do it again . and u sound like a nice cuy . there is heaps of girls out there that want a cuy like u . sorry to say that. i know u love her . go with your heart . good luck
2009-08-11 4:34 am
Unfortunately trust isn't something you can fake either it's there or not so since you're feeling bad, it would be best to talk to her. There are no guarantees as to how she'll act she may surprise you. Whatever happens will for a reason, good luck :)
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