我 3月份 的時候隨著家人一起移民到美國來了.
其實當時我已經很不想要來,
可是奈何父母跟我說, 因為四個人是一張申請表, 一個人不去就全家人不可以去了... 而且他們說到時候不喜歡的話可以隨時回香港, 因為拿了三個月就可以拿到綠卡然後就可以離開, 反正香港還有外公外婆可以同住.
其實當時我知道, 回來的機會並不大, 父母總喜歡哄自己的兒女去做他們想要的事情, 這樣的經歷太多了.
不過最後我還是選擇相信我的父母, 暫停了一切學習上的事情, 先過來了美國.
一個月又一個月地過去了, 自己也試過插班到一間中學那裡上學, 嘗試一下美國的教育制度... 可是, 我真的適應不了.
事實上,我自己是比較喜歡有壓力的教學模式, 我是比較寧願天天測驗的, 因為我覺得那樣才有更多更多動力去學習.
自己也考慮得很清楚,
因為香港有很多目標自己都很希望可以完成都很希望可以達到.
其實我在香港的學校裡面, 大概也算得上是一個大人物了.
所以學校方面一切問題都願意體諒我, 都願意接納我.
我自己讀到中三就過來了,
本來打算中四就跟一群朋友嘗試競選學生會.
然後自己在香港也有了很多升學目標...
大學方面的事情都做了很詳細的考慮了.
是的, 我的計畫全部都因為來了美國所以擱置了.
完成了美國這幾個月的課程, 我也以為終於可以回香港了.
不過打算回到香港以後可以不全用父母的錢上學,
所以自己找了份工作, 打算到8月份就可以回香港.
好可以減輕父母的經濟負擔.
可是明顯地, 問題就是父母現在並不希望我回香港讀書.
我可以理解他們並不希望兒女離開自己的心情,
也可以理解他們會擔心我一個人在香港, 只有外公外婆的生活.
可是其實我真的覺得香港的生活比較適合我...
我寧可忙碌一點, 其實我總覺得忙碌一點生活才可以充實一點.
大概是因為自己有了目標, 有了朋友, 有了計畫,
所以我真的更喜歡香港的生活.
而且, 在美國, 我只剩下兩年的時間來考大學.
說實話, 我並沒有足夠的信心可以考上一間好大學.
畢竟英文跟其他人相差有一定的程度,
而且美國升大學, 也相當重視你中學的出身.
我目前的那間中學, 大概就跟香港中學的band3尾差不多吧...
其實我真的很擔心自己的前途.
是的, 我也明白未來的事情沒有人說得準.
不能說美國的路跟香港的路到底哪條比較好走.
可是, 我真的很希望可以回流到香港.
無論是出自感情主觀還是讀書方面的問題.
另外, 大概我自己也不想放棄已經在香港所建立起來的一切.
問題又來了, 因為我拿了綠卡並不久,
所以如果我就這樣離開的話, 我有可能失去綠卡,
要取決於入境時候海關移民官對我的態度.
換言之, 就是有失去回來美國的機會.
那麼我就有可能要重新申請移民手續才能來美國居住.
也就是說, 我有可能要跟父母分開好一段時間,
幸運的就只是完成學業的一段時間,
不幸的可要是重新等候移民機會的日子, 這說不定.
其實也可以申請回美證以防萬一, 但我家人並不希望我冒這個險.
我自己是覺得, 讀書的時間只剩下這幾年,
我真的很想可以在香港完成學業.
為了這件事情我已經煩惱了好幾個星期...
有哪位教我可以怎樣做嗎?
*謝謝你的耐心閱讀 =)
選擇香港還是美國繼續升學? 好煩呀救命!!
2009-07-16 2:54 pm
回答 (15)
2009-07-16 5:34 pm
✔ 最佳答案
其實我覺得你要諗下你想翻香港o既原因係掛住香港o既野，定係真係覺得香港教育可以令你o既前途更好。如果只係因為想翻而翻，我覺得你留係美國會好d，因為你只係暫時未慣係美國o既生活。其實升大學方面，你唔洗咁擔心，如果你係肯讀書o既人，你係美國o既前途可能仲好過係香港，因為你係美國一定入到大學，就算係入左d Community College ，只要你肯讀，讀一兩年就一定入到d好o既大學。
如果你翻你香港，又要334，同多d人爭入大學，d老師跟本唔識教334d野，同埋係香港要入到可o既大學好難，如果係香港入唔到好o既大學，你o既前途會重差過係美國。
如果你係覺得香港教育可以令你o既前途更好o既話，我就建議你翻香港讀，因為你係個邊跟本唔會發揮得到，好似放一條海魚係淡水入面，讀到好o既大學都會唔開心。何況你冇心機讀書，一定讀唔好。如果翻香港真係令你讀得開心d，i mean個教育制度(田鴨式)真係令你可以有心機讀書o既話，就算放棄錄卡，我都係建議你翻香港，因為綠卡可以申請過，但係你o既前途只得一個
希望可以幫到你=)
2009-07-30 7:59 pm
我覺得你鍾意在HK讀書,咪番你HK讀！！！我個表哥都跟去阿媽去咗外國讀書,話個度D老師都唔理你,你鍾意就讀,唔鍾意就算數,都不及HK好！！！就算你番咗HK,您都可以探哋！！！希望e啲意見可以幫到你......
2009-07-29 8:46 pm
我看了這麼多，我覺得你是習慣了香港的生活，不是在分析香港及美國兩者的教育制度好壞。
我是過來人，來美國居住已4年，一開始上community college，yr 3再轉，現在是大學最後一年，老實講，我間大學晤差，UC Berkeley，而且我成績都幾好，返到香港絕不是得留學生個名。證明要讀即使一開始英文不好都有辦法，要做好學生，我都跟得好辛苦。
現實一點想，現在社會競爭，你要突圍必要有過人之處，英文好可以係其中一樣。
理想上來講，你是不是你未考過會考，所以你而家會咁講。我係一個考過會考及AL的人，AL的成績都令我入到中大japanese studies, 但係當年讀死書讀死書讀到不知學習的樂趣，競爭又大，為升學而學習，慢慢完全不知道自己讀書為咩！
來到美國後，自由度大，到處都是機會，喜歡讀什麼就讀什麼，老實說，發展機會大，亦會遇到不同國家的人，人的進步多好多，是你思想不到的，如果你是個有心讀書的人，你放棄這樣的機會，你將來一定regret.....
我是過來人，來美國居住已4年，一開始上community college，yr 3再轉，現在是大學最後一年，老實講，我間大學晤差，UC Berkeley，而且我成績都幾好，返到香港絕不是得留學生個名。證明要讀即使一開始英文不好都有辦法，要做好學生，我都跟得好辛苦。
現實一點想，現在社會競爭，你要突圍必要有過人之處，英文好可以係其中一樣。
理想上來講，你是不是你未考過會考，所以你而家會咁講。我係一個考過會考及AL的人，AL的成績都令我入到中大japanese studies, 但係當年讀死書讀死書讀到不知學習的樂趣，競爭又大，為升學而學習，慢慢完全不知道自己讀書為咩！
來到美國後，自由度大，到處都是機會，喜歡讀什麼就讀什麼，老實說，發展機會大，亦會遇到不同國家的人，人的進步多好多，是你思想不到的，如果你是個有心讀書的人，你放棄這樣的機會，你將來一定regret.....
2009-07-29 2:07 am
如果我是你
我會回香港
要朝著自己的目標走
相信自己
只是
要先想清楚
不然
做了錯的決定
就不能後悔
加油
希望能幫助你
我會回香港
要朝著自己的目標走
相信自己
只是
要先想清楚
不然
做了錯的決定
就不能後悔
加油
希望能幫助你
2009-07-28 6:23 am
我覺得你應留在H.K. , 因為你認為在H.K. 升大學的機會比較大ma~我認為你應留在H.K. 追尋自己的夢想, 拿綠卡的事大個都得啦, 現在應專注在學業上! (不過事先要跟家人好好商量啊!)
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2009-07-26 3:53 am
You ought to 美國. You can on there 中 school . Then go back to hong kong there read 大 school.
2009-07-25 4:18 am
I assume you are not in 3-3-4 system. So let's think about this:
1. What will be the result of your HKCEE and HKALE?
2. Are you able to get to Form 6 / the university you want?
Also, ask yourself these questions:
1. Have you ever tried your best in accepting the new living style?
2. Do you have a understanding of the higher education system here?
As a fellow immigrant, when I feel here is you did not give the chance for a try because of your bias. When you don't want to accept it, you will try a lot of excuse to avoid, even you won't give a try to understand the system.
I think what you should do is trying to understand each of your options carefully. Try to understand every single step. You only have to convince yourself in this. So think and try to understand and consider each option. Then you know what is the best.
1. What will be the result of your HKCEE and HKALE?
2. Are you able to get to Form 6 / the university you want?
Also, ask yourself these questions:
1. Have you ever tried your best in accepting the new living style?
2. Do you have a understanding of the higher education system here?
As a fellow immigrant, when I feel here is you did not give the chance for a try because of your bias. When you don't want to accept it, you will try a lot of excuse to avoid, even you won't give a try to understand the system.
I think what you should do is trying to understand each of your options carefully. Try to understand every single step. You only have to convince yourself in this. So think and try to understand and consider each option. Then you know what is the best.
2009-07-22 11:46 pm
我認為你係香港升學好d.
因為你跟不上美國個學校.
就算你點擔心都無用拉.?
你都要面對呢件事情喇.?
你依家最好係係香港升學
因為你跟本就係想係香港升學.
只不過你屋企人係都要叫你去美國.
所以變作你自己太大壓力.0
你先會跟唔上.
如果我係你個話我會選擇香港.
依家香港出路多.
美國失業率仲高過香港.
甘你選擇美國都無用喇.?
我覺得選擇香港係會有出路d架.?
選擇香港你無錯,
唔選香港你有錯.
我講就係甘多喇.?
你自己看下我d想法再同你屋企人講下我俾你d想法喇.?
因為你跟不上美國個學校.
就算你點擔心都無用拉.?
你都要面對呢件事情喇.?
你依家最好係係香港升學
因為你跟本就係想係香港升學.
只不過你屋企人係都要叫你去美國.
所以變作你自己太大壓力.0
你先會跟唔上.
如果我係你個話我會選擇香港.
依家香港出路多.
美國失業率仲高過香港.
甘你選擇美國都無用喇.?
我覺得選擇香港係會有出路d架.?
選擇香港你無錯,
唔選香港你有錯.
我講就係甘多喇.?
你自己看下我d想法再同你屋企人講下我俾你d想法喇.?
2009-07-22 10:33 am
You might need to have a good talk with your parent.
I know living in another country, speaking of another language is hard.
Believe me, I know.
The main thing is to follow your heart, don't be scared or shy. Nothing can stop you if you really want to do something.
If you can't make it back in HK in time, you might try and study. Try and speak more English, everyone will understand your problem, and I think the teacher and students might give you lots of helps as well.
Don't just always thinking of come back to HK.
Sometimes think about enjoying life in USA, you might find it very happy.
I know living in another country, speaking of another language is hard.
Believe me, I know.
The main thing is to follow your heart, don't be scared or shy. Nothing can stop you if you really want to do something.
If you can't make it back in HK in time, you might try and study. Try and speak more English, everyone will understand your problem, and I think the teacher and students might give you lots of helps as well.
Don't just always thinking of come back to HK.
Sometimes think about enjoying life in USA, you might find it very happy.
2009-07-21 6:26 pm
你其實你可以唔理其他人點睇,如果你决定左,你家都冇位逼你牙.係咪先?你大個左,想點做,就點做.我知你好想係香港完成學業,依仲心情我明白,但係你唔應該照著你家人的决定而放棄左你想係香港完成學業,可能我答的可以幫到你喇!希望你可以選我做最佳解答
2009-07-21 18:45:54 補充：
係家人
2009-07-21 18:45:54 補充：
係家人
2009-07-17 2:02 am
年青人有實力有信心什麼都不用怕的,如果自己覺得對香港有信心應當回港, 但是一旦回港你就要努力做好本份, 唔好話常常掛住玩 lo..... , 只是一張綠卡看在我心裹不覺得什樣.,請不要介意, 其實說到底你們在美國只是二等公文,美國唔會特別好過香港, 就算真係回不了美國要你永遠留係香港你以後會唔會後悔先,如果說到底你很在付美國張綠卡你就唔好回港了, 但是如果你覺得冇左冇所謂,最重要青春無悔咁就更係番香港啦 !!!
我都去過好多地方始終都係香港好,而且美國的種族奇是都唔係話冇(都幾嚴重).,你以後有機會一樣可以再用學生身份申請去美國讀書,總G最後一句我就是覺得你要''青春無悔''
我都去過好多地方始終都係香港好,而且美國的種族奇是都唔係話冇(都幾嚴重).,你以後有機會一樣可以再用學生身份申請去美國讀書,總G最後一句我就是覺得你要''青春無悔''
2009-07-17 1:17 am
I will not teach you what to do. But I will help you to think about it.
I assume you are not in 3-3-4 system. So let's think about this:
1. What will be the result of your HKCEE and HKALE?
2. Are you able to get to Form 6 / the university you want?
Also, ask yourself these questions:
1. Have you ever tried your best in accepting the new living style?
2. Do you have a understanding of the higher education system here?
As a fellow immigrant, when I feel here is you did not give the chance for a try because of your bias. When you don't want to accept it, you will try a lot of excuse to avoid, even you won't give a try to understand the system.
I think what you should do is trying to understand each of your options carefully. Try to understand every single step. You only have to convince yourself in this. So think and try to understand and consider each option. Then you know what is the best.
Let me know if you need something else.
I assume you are not in 3-3-4 system. So let's think about this:
1. What will be the result of your HKCEE and HKALE?
2. Are you able to get to Form 6 / the university you want?
Also, ask yourself these questions:
1. Have you ever tried your best in accepting the new living style?
2. Do you have a understanding of the higher education system here?
As a fellow immigrant, when I feel here is you did not give the chance for a try because of your bias. When you don't want to accept it, you will try a lot of excuse to avoid, even you won't give a try to understand the system.
I think what you should do is trying to understand each of your options carefully. Try to understand every single step. You only have to convince yourself in this. So think and try to understand and consider each option. Then you know what is the best.
Let me know if you need something else.
2009-07-16 9:24 pm
你應該係HK讀
在美國唔使Exam，就算俾你羅左張畢業證書，人地都唔會請你工作
因為HK要Exam，So你羅左張畢業證書，人地都會請你工作
在美國唔使Exam，就算俾你羅左張畢業證書，人地都唔會請你工作
因為HK要Exam，So你羅左張畢業證書，人地都會請你工作
2009-07-16 7:32 pm
我覺得系香港讀埋佢好d囉`
系美國又吾適應`
系美國又吾適應`
2009-07-16 5:27 pm
其實你應該在香港完成學業, 因為你都適應不了美國嘅教育制度.
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