✔ 最佳答案
建議你應該坦白D。。。
如果你有當佢係你好朋友,應該坦白同佢講。
應該做返你自己,其實朋友里家野好應該好好溝通。
如果你對佢有乜不滿,應該坦白咁同佢講,
如果瞞住對方就唔好啦!
相反,如果佢覺得你做錯D咩,都可以坦坦白白咁同你講啦~
積極D啦~話哂都係朋友呀嘛。
2009-07-13 00:09:24 補充:
加油!
你咁唔中意佢
咁都唔好勉強自己啦
你一真勸佢咁好
佢會唔知自己做錯咗
當佢再樣做
你就唔好理佢
如果佢唔揾番你,咁你地geh友誼都好有限啦
又或者,你同佢講你點諗
了解對方,先可以做到真正朋友ga
or 你可以睇下佢有咩心結之類geh 野
如果你係好想佢好
多啲鼓勵佢,唔好咁收埋自己
既然你都知道佢冇朋友,咁我覺得你唔好飛起佢咯.
我都有個朋友系咁既樣,不過我同我個F就唔系特別熟.
佢媽咪同我媽咪系朋友,所以我先識佢咋..
我住九龍佢住新界,都隔好遠,我地好少出去,
之前放假就有出去過,都有互相去對方屋企..
好多時我同佢講野佢都好似聽唔到,
我叫佢個名都要叫2次佢先應一聲.
不過後來試過有晚佢過咗嚟,然後同我去夜街,
佢好主動咁同我講咗唔小佢既野.
唔知系米因為成日我都同佢講好多野,
所以佢「報答」我..
我都有諗過點解佢會咁,可能唔系好中意我掛.
不過佢話唔系,我諗應該系因為佢有小小自閉,
唔系幾中意同人講佢心裡面既諗法咯.
佢表達能力唔系差,只系睇佢想唔想同人講啫.
所以有時我都幾討厭佢,因為同佢一齊,
得我單方面咁「討好」,佢就好似公主咁.
好彩唔系同佢拍拖,一米實喊死都似.
我想話,有D野,可能要你等下先會見到個效果..
可能你個F系遲咗小小開竅啫..
不過見你好似有小小厭倦咗你果個朋友,
其實你地做朋友啫,又唔系拍拖..
以你開朗既性格應該唔止佢一個朋友.
你可以唔做主動果方.等佢主動聯絡你..
咁你麥可以不知不覺間同佢疏遠,
又唔會發生爭執.鬧不愉快..
如果佢唔想穩你,就當少一個朋友咯.
如果佢穩你,咁你地都可以一齊出去..玩下..
佢主動同你傾計果陣,你就可以適時咁同佢表達下不滿..
不過記住D語氣唔好太差咯,如果唔系吵起上嚟就唔好啦.
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希望幫到你啦.(*^__^*)
佢冇其他fd,你咪當可憐下佢繼續同佢做fd囉,佢自私咁你就教下佢做人道理,同埋多d同佢傾計,等佢冇咁自閉。
i think u should be patient & kind to him
yes although he may be very irritating or annoying sometimes
he is still your friend
& besides, do u know why is he acting like that?
maybe he has a problem in his family & is very unhappy about it
maybe something bad has happened to him
maybe he has been betrayed by friends & is hurt
try to understand him more & show concern
i once has a friend like yours (but we are both girls)
she is very stubborn & gets angry easily
i hate her at first & i ignore her or be mean to her
but then when we get to know each other
i found out the her parents has divourced
i felt really sorry for her & very ahamed of myself
so i try to br friends with her & we turn out to be best friends!
so all u have to do is under stand him more & get to know what his problem is!!!!
OK, try to treat him the way as what he treats you!! See how is his feeling..... If he is not care, you dont need to be a friend as him.
佢係你朋友...唔係你情人.....你冇必要去遷就佢啦.....辛苦就 take the break啦.....比佢知道...世界唔係圍住佢轉ga啦....唔係冇左佢唔得啦....
你覺得同佢一齊玩個時開心的話,
咁你未同佢做朋友,
但如果唔開心的話,
未唔好同佢做朋友
除非你得佢一個朋友,冇左佢就唔得戈隻,
如果唔係,
d咁鬼自私既人,同佢做朋友都傻
我認為朋友,只要你願意,再好既都識到,
唔洗浪費d時間同心機系佢身上
你個朋友比較自我中心, 性格應該由他與家人生活有一定影響,
例如一個小朋友, 他小時侯會偏食, 他不喜歡時, 他會不答人說
話, 並家人太痛惜他, 不會去駡他不對, 還千方百計遷就他, 這樣
長大後便不懂表達他自己, 亦不懂體諒他人, 所以你要先去同他
講清楚他的問題, 表達你對他行為的不滿, 他仍不知的, 便試學
他的行為去剌激他, 看他嘗試到你的感受, 可否領他有反思的機
會, 他一定須要你這個好朋友, 如果改變不到, 你不要介意, 慢慢
他將來受社會現實去改變他, 你暫不理他便可以!
其實你自己都知呢位朋友 ,可能係一個極被動又自閉既人 , 佢可能唔識同人溝通 , 唔識代人接物嘅技巧。
你自己諗清楚 , 你想將呢位朋友當做知心友 , 定係一般飲食朋友先 , 佢係你心目中重要嗎 ?
如果係做一般朋友的話 , 咁你可以算了吧 , 當識少一個 , 以免自己唔開心 .
如果佢喺你心目中重要 , 係你一個知心友的話 , 咁就要相反處理 , 對佢要有耐性、細心、有愛心同埋最緊要係誠意 , 唔可以短時間要佢有好大改變 , 最好有技巧地同佢講你嘅感受 , 要慢慢引度佢 , 做朋友之導 . 比D時間大家 , 用你嘅誠意 , 可能會另佢有所改變 .
希望對你有幫助!!
咁你唔好做佢朋友睇下佢點
咁奇怪既人都唔知係男係女
我好唔好同佢做朋友....
你寫咗咁多野,
都睇唔到...
你個朋友同你係同性定異性,
所以無得定論.....
究竟你两個好唔好做知心友.