我好唔好同佢做朋友

2009-06-29 9:06 pm
我有個朋友,佢係一個比人覺得係個自閉既人,極比動 同佢一起出街,你唔講野佢就唔會應你,給我覺得好似自己一個出街咁,份人又自私,
佢叫我去街就好似一定要我去咁
我叫佢去街 佢唔想去既話就會係電話到唔講野跟住cut你電話
佢鍾意去食既野,就死都叫你去,到左我叫去食果時佢不單此唔去還要消失 老實講做朋友要做既我都做完了 依家我都唔知點好啦!大家比d意見我ia
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我同佢一起果時做係好

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佢係男 我都你男 佢d行為真係好怪

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鍾意果時就打比我,我想找佢果時就冇人聽 係我角度 佢冇當我係朋友

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我同佢一起果時做係好辛

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我聽完你地講野之後定唔打比佢(等佢打理先聽),不過佢自己都冇打理 佢冇朋友架,不過佢成日話 有人叫佢出去 有一次我見成過星期冇見未叫下佢出去囉 結果居然話我地不用成日見 題外話,佢打理話去邊就去邊 唔去又唔出講野 cut 同依個人做fd 真係一d都唔開心

回答 (13)

2009-07-13 8:08 am
✔ 最佳答案
建議你應該坦白D。。。

如果你有當佢係你好朋友,應該坦白同佢講。

應該做返你自己,其實朋友里家野好應該好好溝通。

如果你對佢有乜不滿,應該坦白咁同佢講,

如果瞞住對方就唔好啦!

相反,如果佢覺得你做錯D咩,都可以坦坦白白咁同你講啦~

積極D啦~話哂都係朋友呀嘛。

2009-07-13 00:09:24 補充:
加油!
2009-07-13 9:39 pm
你咁唔中意佢
咁都唔好勉強自己啦
你一真勸佢咁好
佢會唔知自己做錯咗
當佢再樣做
你就唔好理佢
如果佢唔揾番你,咁你地geh友誼都好有限啦
又或者,你同佢講你點諗
了解對方,先可以做到真正朋友ga

or 你可以睇下佢有咩心結之類geh 野
如果你係好想佢好
多啲鼓勵佢,唔好咁收埋自己
2009-07-12 1:41 am
既然你都知道佢冇朋友,咁我覺得你唔好飛起佢咯.

我都有個朋友系咁既樣,不過我同我個F就唔系特別熟.
佢媽咪同我媽咪系朋友,所以我先識佢咋..

我住九龍佢住新界,都隔好遠,我地好少出去,
之前放假就有出去過,都有互相去對方屋企..
好多時我同佢講野佢都好似聽唔到,
我叫佢個名都要叫2次佢先應一聲.
不過後來試過有晚佢過咗嚟,然後同我去夜街,
佢好主動咁同我講咗唔小佢既野.
唔知系米因為成日我都同佢講好多野,
所以佢「報答」我..
我都有諗過點解佢會咁,可能唔系好中意我掛.
不過佢話唔系,我諗應該系因為佢有小小自閉,
唔系幾中意同人講佢心裡面既諗法咯.
佢表達能力唔系差,只系睇佢想唔想同人講啫.
所以有時我都幾討厭佢,因為同佢一齊,
得我單方面咁「討好」,佢就好似公主咁.
好彩唔系同佢拍拖,一米實喊死都似.
我想話,有D野,可能要你等下先會見到個效果..
可能你個F系遲咗小小開竅啫..


不過見你好似有小小厭倦咗你果個朋友,
其實你地做朋友啫,又唔系拍拖..
以你開朗既性格應該唔止佢一個朋友.
你可以唔做主動果方.等佢主動聯絡你..
咁你麥可以不知不覺間同佢疏遠,
又唔會發生爭執.鬧不愉快..
如果佢唔想穩你,就當少一個朋友咯.
如果佢穩你,咁你地都可以一齊出去..玩下..
佢主動同你傾計果陣,你就可以適時咁同佢表達下不滿..
不過記住D語氣唔好太差咯,如果唔系吵起上嚟就唔好啦.
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希望幫到你啦.(*^__^*)
2009-07-03 10:50 am
佢冇其他fd,你咪當可憐下佢繼續同佢做fd囉,佢自私咁你就教下佢做人道理,同埋多d同佢傾計,等佢冇咁自閉。
2009-06-30 6:12 pm
i think u should be patient & kind to him

yes although he may be very irritating or annoying sometimes

he is still your friend

& besides, do u know why is he acting like that?

maybe he has a problem in his family & is very unhappy about it

maybe something bad has happened to him

maybe he has been betrayed by friends & is hurt

try to understand him more & show concern

i once has a friend like yours (but we are both girls)

she is very stubborn & gets angry easily

i hate her at first & i ignore her or be mean to her

but then when we get to know each other

i found out the her parents has divourced

i felt really sorry for her & very ahamed of myself

so i try to br friends with her & we turn out to be best friends!

so all u have to do is under stand him more & get to know what his problem is!!!!
2009-06-30 8:49 am
OK, try to treat him the way as what he treats you!! See how is his feeling..... If he is not care, you dont need to be a friend as him.
2009-06-30 8:22 am
佢係你朋友...唔係你情人.....你冇必要去遷就佢啦.....辛苦就 take the break啦.....比佢知道...世界唔係圍住佢轉ga啦....唔係冇左佢唔得啦....
2009-06-30 6:41 am
你覺得同佢一齊玩個時開心的話,
咁你未同佢做朋友,
但如果唔開心的話,
未唔好同佢做朋友
2009-06-30 3:25 am
除非你得佢一個朋友,冇左佢就唔得戈隻,
如果唔係,
d咁鬼自私既人,同佢做朋友都傻
我認為朋友,只要你願意,再好既都識到,
唔洗浪費d時間同心機系佢身上
2009-06-29 10:22 pm
你個朋友比較自我中心, 性格應該由他與家人生活有一定影響,

例如一個小朋友, 他小時侯會偏食, 他不喜歡時, 他會不答人說

話, 並家人太痛惜他, 不會去駡他不對, 還千方百計遷就他, 這樣

長大後便不懂表達他自己, 亦不懂體諒他人, 所以你要先去同他

講清楚他的問題, 表達你對他行為的不滿, 他仍不知的, 便試學

他的行為去剌激他, 看他嘗試到你的感受, 可否領他有反思的機

會, 他一定須要你這個好朋友, 如果改變不到, 你不要介意, 慢慢

他將來受社會現實去改變他, 你暫不理他便可以!
2009-06-29 9:49 pm
其實你自己都知呢位朋友 ,可能係一個極被動又自閉既人 , 佢可能唔識同人溝通 , 唔識代人接物嘅技巧。
你自己諗清楚 , 你想將呢位朋友當做知心友 , 定係一般飲食朋友先 , 佢係你心目中重要嗎 ?
如果係做一般朋友的話 , 咁你可以算了吧 , 當識少一個 , 以免自己唔開心 .
如果佢喺你心目中重要 , 係你一個知心友的話 , 咁就要相反處理 , 對佢要有耐性、細心、有愛心同埋最緊要係誠意 , 唔可以短時間要佢有好大改變 , 最好有技巧地同佢講你嘅感受 , 要慢慢引度佢 , 做朋友之導 . 比D時間大家 , 用你嘅誠意 , 可能會另佢有所改變 .

希望對你有幫助!!
2009-06-29 9:25 pm
咁你唔好做佢朋友睇下佢點

咁奇怪既人都唔知係男係女
2009-06-29 9:21 pm
我好唔好同佢做朋友....
你寫咗咁多野,
都睇唔到...
你個朋友同你係同性定異性,
所以無得定論.....
究竟你两個好唔好做知心友.

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