Mind always thinks in a matured manner and heart is always moved by desires and sentiments. So it's not difficult to distinguish between what mind wants and what heart wants.
The two have grown to be indistinguishable over time. Always close but never quite the same...but this is a good thing. When separated by a great gulf, happiness is never achieved, for discontent will raise its head on one side or the other. The mind must lead...ever searching for that which is true...the heart must fall inline behind this and follow when it is as an unruly child. But as it matures there is no reason to keep it supressed... let its instincts and feelings contribute to what the mind comprehends and both will benefit united as different facets of a whole.
參考: Experience.... Good judgement comes from experience....and that comes from learning from the many bad judgements of the past....
Hmmm...I think they both want the same things now. They are in tune! Wasn't always like this of course...well, you know what...maybe they are not so in tune now that I think about it...hmmm... I am confused :/
it's hard for me on some things. on others i could tell the difference.
usually when the truth about it is obvious than no but if i am in a state of denial then yes. i am sorry if it's confusing. it made sense in my head.