Will I Scare Her Away Or Seem Over Protective?
2009-06-19 4:06 pm
Long story short my girlfriend was abused sexualy by her dad so she didnt care when guys got cheap feels at school, but know im going out with her and i dont think her personality is strong enough to stop them, Im going to deck every guy that trys I cant help that but will i scare her away
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2009-06-19 4:35 pm
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People deal with sexual abuse in different ways. Some will isolate themselves...Some you would never know were abused...Some, like your gf, become promiscuous. Has she ever told you that she needs or wants you to protect her from approaching other guys or is this more about you not wanting to acknowledge that she is who she is? Have you actually told her that you don't like it when she allows guys to hit on her? Everyone is saying you should fight the guys? Not a good idea because you will eventually grow tired when you see that no amount of fighting will make her change her ways...She should be seeing a counselor to help her sort things out and until she's 'right' within herself, she really shouldn't be in any relationships (not even with you). I don't know if she will stick around knowing that you will be fighting to keep her from getting too close to other guys, but you need to take a serious look at why you are with her. Is this really a good relationship for both of you?
2009-06-19 4:12 pm
I agree just kick the **** out of them ALL and ont care what anyone else says.
2009-06-19 4:11 pm
do it.
2009-06-19 4:10 pm
Yup. Take em out.
2009-06-19 4:11 pm
it is assault and battery if you deck them.
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2009-06-19 4:16 pm
You should tell her what's bothering you. And hopefully there will be a change.
2009-06-19 4:15 pm
you should help her out like that. Maybe not totally knocking them out, but shock them. Talk to your girlfriend, tell her what u think about the situation, ask her what SHE wants. Knowing that your trying to help her out will make her more confident.
2009-06-19 4:15 pm
In this case I would say; give one polite warning to any guy sniffing around, then if ignored waste them.Your girl needs someone to stand up for her, to trust.Stand up.
2009-06-19 4:14 pm
This is such a sad story isnt it. Her dad owes her her life back :( if you want to see this girl ur gona have to put alot of work in to help her out. You sound like a really nice guy and good luck. You might scare her if you are violent to these other guys i know i would be scared. I wouldnt let my boyfriend fight in front of me i would panic too much. You need to let her know that it upsets you if other guys are touching her and that she needs to let the guys know shes not interested and will report them for sexual abuse if they carry on... something like that... if it dont work...fk it and punch their disgusting little brains right out of their skulls :)
2009-06-19 4:14 pm
No becus it shows how much you love and care for her also the boys shouldnt be doin that to her becus they dont love her like you do there jus takin advantage
2009-06-19 4:14 pm
beat the shiiitt outta them.
let her know that you wont let anybody hurt her anymore,
keep her satisfied but dont use her.
But at the same time if she's still letting them, then, you can't have a healthy relationship if there's no trust and if she's not going to stay faithful.
let her know that you wont let anybody hurt her anymore,
keep her satisfied but dont use her.
But at the same time if she's still letting them, then, you can't have a healthy relationship if there's no trust and if she's not going to stay faithful.
2009-06-19 4:14 pm
Wow, this is a difficult one. My heart goes out to your girlfriend...is she getting counseling for her past abuse? Tell her that you are feeling really bad about what happened to her and that when you see guys do things that are disrespectful and rude to her that you get really angry and want to stick up for her. Ask her if she would mind your telling those guys off(they need to be told off!)--maybe she would be relieved that you care so much about her.
2009-06-19 4:13 pm
just don't over do it and you should be ok. let her know that you're only trying to protect her. make sure she knows that what they're doing is wrong. try and give her some of her self confidence back.
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2009-06-19 4:13 pm
Good idea! If I was a guy, I would probably be WAY over protective of my girlfriend lol :P
2009-06-19 4:12 pm
omg! thats so sweet!!! i think every guy should be like that! go for it! just make sure teachers dont see, k?
2009-06-19 4:13 pm
Don't do it yourself.
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2009-06-19 4:11 pm
talk to her first,
then beat the guys up(:
i dont think it will scare her away but you might seem protective.
then beat the guys up(:
i dont think it will scare her away but you might seem protective.
2009-06-19 4:11 pm
be protective
its probably wont scare her away.
knowing that someone is trying to help her out shud give her courage.
its probably wont scare her away.
knowing that someone is trying to help her out shud give her courage.
2009-06-19 4:10 pm
you should tell her whats on ur mind and see what she has to say before you start knocking people out
2009-06-19 4:12 pm
i have 3 steps for you
1)
talk to her tell her that you really care about her and that you are really against it
2)
then tell every guy that dose it that they stop or you make them stop
3)
start carring around a small easy to hide weapon incase they decide to beat the **** out of you
1)
talk to her tell her that you really care about her and that you are really against it
2)
then tell every guy that dose it that they stop or you make them stop
3)
start carring around a small easy to hide weapon incase they decide to beat the **** out of you
2009-06-19 4:11 pm
You are going out with her. So technically she is "yours". Nobody (guys) besides you should be able lay a finger on her. Being over protected, no just doing your job.I don't think you'll scare her away.
2009-06-19 4:10 pm
Ha, go for it! xD
I doubt you'll scare her away. Just don't beat the living **** out of them.
I doubt you'll scare her away. Just don't beat the living **** out of them.
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