a weird relationship with a girl... help!!!?

It sounds to me like she is not very happy and may have no good way out of her current relationship so she is going out with you and still him at the same time she may be hurting i suggest you talk to her and tactfully ask about the situation and find out what is going on

Carefull, she might think of you as a friend who is becoming a best friend. Don't push the issue until they have broken up.

it sounds like your the *other* guy to me or the guy on the side..........unless you dont mind this relationship then i guess countiue doing what your doing, other then that just ask her whats up, theres no point of her wasting your time trying to figure out weather your dating but i guess if your not sleeping together or kissing or doing anything like that its not dating but alot people do that who dont date...but then again if your just friends why isnt the friends and boyfriend aware of these little get togethers??? hmmm i dunno i kinda think she wants to have her cake and eat it too.........it might be hard to just be straight forward but im thinking thats your only choice if you really wanna know...ask her whats going on with her boyfriend are they together?? or is she even happy?? does she like you or just want to be friends just tell her you dont want to waste your time working on a real relationship if shes still going to be with her boyfriend, theres no point of her plays both fields..by the way does she flirt with you at all???

i think you might be friends, a girl and a guy can be just friends, unless it has gone beyond anything you wouldn't normally do with a good friend of either gender, if so then you're in an affair.

either try to subtly get an answer from her, if you can't just ask her straight out. who knows she might dump him and go for you, or just continue as things are. but either way you'll get an answer.

good luck

Run? Look some where else? Sounds like too many arms and legs in the air too me.

Well you guys are dating, but she's having an affair. I think if she's happy with you then she needs to dump him!

An affair

ask her okay otherwise u will be getting sloppy seconds and are in for a big heart break if she is dating someone ask her to chose pronto or risk your heart, your integrity and get dumped in the end, it always ends this way sweetie
get moving ask directly get your answer then ask her what about u guys and what you want okay baby.. okay

Those who cheat for you will cheat on you.

You don't know why or if their relationship is bad, for all you know she's the reason they fight and you're getting yourself into a mess.

There are plenty of decent, single girls out there.

No your not dating until she breaks up with him and goes out with you OFFICIALLY!..ive been there. Talk about her and her boyfriend. Tell you you feel something more and see where that takes you. but you have to man up and ask!