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There are a myriad of sources available for your research. If you enter "Chinese funeral customs" into your favorite search engine, you'll get a plethora of hits! They will be quite varied because the customs themselves are quite varied.
In addition to the fact that there are 56 ethnic identities in China, there are also a number of religious and traditional aspects in how people respond to death. Many of the sites I read said that an older person never shows respect to a younger person, therefore, the body of a younger person is not brought home for a wake, but placed in a funeral home instead. I have found this not to be true in all cases, especially after the loss of so many young people in last year's earthquake.
The deceased is dressed in new clothing. An announcement is written out in poster form that lists ALL family members, not just nuclear family members. This is basically a family tree that can expand over several generations.
Colors worn during funerals also vary according to region and tradition. In Gansu Province, white is a standard color worn by immediate family members following the death of a loved one.
Chrysanthemum is a traditional flower used at funerals.
If a body is unable to be sent to the family tomb, the head of the coffin is positioned facing the hometown.
Dirt placed on a grave is piled in a cone shape and a stone is placed at the top of the cone. This is so water runoff is steady and won't pool on the grave. The higher the cone (more dirt used), the higher the family status of the deceased.
If a body is cremated, then the more ornate the container for the ashes, the higher the family status. Some families place the ashes in a household shrine, while others have them placed in a public cemetery.
Wakes for older generations usually last from one to three days, with the body being inside the home. Since homes are so small, the family usually rents a large two-tent structure that is placed outside. The two tents are set up facing each other with pictures of the deceased placed inside. The family then hosts visitors, etc. in these tents, feeding them and visiting and remembering the life of the deceased.
Paper funeral wreaths similar to the one seen in this photo:
http://travel.webshots.com/photo/2816181810064162889zVkiiV
line the outside of the tents and outside the home. Memorial banners are a part of the wreath as well. (The one in the photo says "Beloved Grandfather.")
I realize this is a hodgepodge of thoughts. I spoke with some graduate students today to get their input, so this information is very anecdotal and fairly case/province specific. I have only observed Chinese funerals from a distance or as an outsider, not as a participant. My husband's grandmother's funeral was more American than Chinese when she passed away after living in the United States for over 50 years.
Good luck on your research. It's a very interesting topic!
參考: Have lived in China for 6+ years.