I'm so confusing!!

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Allow me to intrude that the fact is you focus too much on the term"relationship." I understand that you like a guy very much in which you cannot open your eyes to see someone else. But sometimes it is wise to say or act upon that giving yourself a degree of freedom to know more people. You may change perspectives as far as relationship wise and just simply friendship wise.

If you are so sure that the guy that you like is "the one," then you should not waste your time and just go ahead and let him know what you feel about him. You can start with some hanging out or gatherings that you and your other female friends will go out with him and his male friends. If you two are getting alone, he will ask you out in some point, or if you cannot wait, you can ask him out. Then, really find a moment that you feel like it is time to transform the friendship to relationship, and then let him know.

As far as the guy you liked before bot not anymore, I suggest you to just be friend with him. You may like him again, or if not, you two can still be friends. When you two hang out, do not think or hesitate of talking or any kind of interaction because real friends will not do that. At that time, a mutual "friendship" will allow you to know whether you like him or he likes you.

Sometimes, do intentionally act upon something because it willmake your actions awkward and weird. Be yourself, be a goodfriend instead because if you push too hard, usually there won'ybe good things happening.

2009-05-03 04:24:31 補充：
3rd paragraph: When you two hang out, do not think or hesitate of talking or any kind of interaction because real friends will not hesitate to talk about anything and by hesitating, you are thinking too much.

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