love problem...help!!

2009-03-10 2:23 am
i date my girlfriend for 6 months now, but after 3 months we have been together, i always act like a kid, always get angry about the small stuff. and she always keep patient. then on valentine's day, i did it again, made she sad and she told me she doesn't have feeling with me anymore, and she start losing faith in our relationship. 3 weeks for that "no feeling relationship" with me, last night after i called her, she told me please give her 1 month for "cooling", then during the cooling time, she asks me not to date her out or call her. after 1 month, she will give me the answer about we can continue or not.

i told her i will change my attitute to her, even bad personality like jealousy etc.
but now in a month i'm not being with her, how can she see me the changing in myself?
and what else i can do during this cooling time to prove her "i've change, i'll never make u sad anymore, and i love u so much"

please...help me...
thanks before...

回答 (2)

2009-03-10 2:54 am
✔ 最佳答案
that's easy.You got to know girl wants to be safe.Girls always wants her mate make her safe and so she can trust that one.

As a girl,i think if i am your girlfriend.I will do the same thing.I think she just need some times to think,to think about the problem between you two.You can be nervos about that.At least she didn't dump you.
She will know if you really change.You can't look like TOO exicted when you meet her later.Just as usual,but use your new personailty.You don't have to do anything more to prove it.She will know if it's really come from your heart.

I think your girlfriend love you and she know you love her too.That's why she wants time to cool down.If i am a girl who facing this...i think if i really know my boyfriend change,i know he loves meand nothing more.you can give her flowers or just act gentlemen.NEVER BE OVER ACTING REMEMBER.
2009-03-19 2:35 am
i am the same as you. If your girlfriend is a bit older than you , you get no hope at all. Try to give her more comfort and don` try to show you are nervous so she will know how important you are. sometimes it don`t work but if you like show her something very nice and romantic. u may have a chance!!((((((((i try it before!!!!!!!!!!!!!!))))))))))))))

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