love problem...help!

2009-03-10 2:22 am
i date my girlfriend for 6 months now, but after 3 months we have been together, i always act like a kid, always get angry about the small stuff. and she always keep patient. then on valentine's day, i did it again, made she sad and she told me she doesn't have feeling with me anymore, and she start losing faith in our relationship. 3 weeks for that "no feeling relationship" with me, last night after i called her, she told me please give her 1 month for "cooling", then during the cooling time, she asks me not to date her out or call her. after 1 month, she will give me the answer about we can continue or not.

i told her i will change my attitute to her, even bad personality like jealousy etc.
but now in a month i'm not being with her, how can she see me the changing in myself?
and what else i can do during this cooling time to prove her "i've change, i'll never make u sad anymore, and i love u so much"

please...help me...
thanks before...

回答 (2)

2009-03-10 10:31 am
✔ 最佳答案
我並不是要潑冷水,就你這情況我明白你內心是何等的焦急。但,你真的沒有任何事情可以做
在這段時間裡,你若找她,只會令她對你的感覺更差,所以你千萬要忍著,當這段日子過去後,她或許還是不會找你,若是這樣,證明她對你真的死心了,這時候你也別找她
現在最重要的,並不是要急著找她,你越急,證明你控制自己的情緒仍然處於一個很低的層面。其實你想想,只是一個月罷了!若果她真的不准你找她的時限只是一個月,那也不是太糟吧?如她真的不找你,我建議你最起碼再兩星期後才找他,若這段時間你覺得很難煞,我建議努力多約朋友去玩來打發時間
你越想見她,只會越害死你,這點你要切記!!因為你想去做一件事而做不來,就如她不跟你復合,這樣你越容易故態復萌。現在最重要的,是你真能改變自己,一時間的空口說白話是沒用的。可能只是因為這段時間你想見她所以你現在覺得自己真的能改,老實說,我也不相信一個經常發脾氣、呷醋的人可以一下子改過來,你自己用常理去想一想也應該知道吧?別被眼前的事引致衝昏了頭腦
其實我建議你真的慢慢學習怎樣改變自己,這才是最重要,最少若這段感情真的失去了,也為下一次做好準備,也別再多一次傷害一個女孩
但若你真的認為自己可以一下子就改變過來並已經改變了,我建議你在日期滿了後最少兩星期才找她,而重點是你要跟她談一些這段日子裡你開心的事,而這些事並不涉及你倆的感情,你要讓他看到你開朗的一面,並不要單單想著她的事,這會令她放心不下
其實你的情況跟我表弟一模一樣,當時,我看到我表弟,我也不禁建議他女朋友跟他分開
小器的男人....試問女人怎能跟這樣的一個人一起相處呢?
2009-03-10 10:02 am
tell her to give your a trial period...
let’s say 2 weeks.
if you hurt her in any way or make her have any negative feelings...
then you fail to keep your promise as to change and get rid of your bad habits and personality...
then she has the right to break up with you...

on the other hand, if in the trial period,
she sees that you’ve changed, then there may be a chance she will be give you a chance and be with you again.

”cooling” ends up ---> breaking up most of the time....
try to show and prove it to her, that you can change for her... because you love her!

good luck!
: )

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