唔知點繼續活下去

2009-02-24 9:54 pm
我係男仔同個女仔拍左一年拖, 宜家無左佢好似令我覺得我既人生好似失敗左已經! 好唔捨得我女朋友! 呢一年黎經歷好多野, 好刻骨銘心, 之前失戀都唔係甘痛! 但係呢次真係辛苦到想快d行完呢一世. 我會好妒忌佢將來既另一半! 所以同佢唔會做到朋友! 我點樣先可以放低佢! 真係好辛苦, 同佢甜既時候, 我一直以為會同佢一生一世.........同佢結婚...宜家點算好?
更新1:

廿四歲呀... 對d咩都無乜興趣啦....有錢都無用...買唔到自己恨既野...甘多目標都無乜意思啦

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To iceblue: I alreay tried my best to keep her back, however failed, that's why i'm depressive To liteboy: I don't need preety and appearance. I just want girl who is pure. good in heart. Find another one can not let me don't missing her

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2009-02-24 11:04 pm
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生命係好寶貴架~希望你唔好咁隨便就話"唔想繼續活下去"的說話。

人係有情緒的,當一個人唔開心,感到絶望的時候,咩說話都講得出,但事情過後,又會後悔。

可能你同你女朋友真係經歷左一d你認為好刻骨銘心的事,到而家要分手,你好傷心難過......

但我成日都有個念頭,就係事出必有因,同埋事情發生左之後,傷心難過一定會有,但最重要的係你點企返起身。你如果咁唔想同你女朋友分手,咁你有無做過一d事係去維持你地之間的感情,究竟係咩事令到你地分手,係咪你做左d咩事令到佢要離開你?

放低一個人最重要係自己的心態,忙~係其中一種令自己忘記的方法,搵多d野做,呢度我係指有健康有益身心的活動等等,或者搵一樣野去取替佢,人或者物品,嗜好等等。每每當出現另一個你愛的人的時候,隨著時間過去,之前戈個可能只會係人生一個中途站。我無話你一定要忘記佢,個腦要記,你想點忘記都忘記唔到,所以唔需要勉強自己去忘記....

成日係度自怨自艾,我覺得無咩用囉,真係搵一d目標比自己仲好,愛情係人生的一部分。人生仲有友情、親情、事業....好多好多的野,希望你唔會忽略其他的部分....

點解要妒忌人呢? 如果你真係認為你女朋友咁好的話,點解你要放手,又點解會令佢對你放手呢? 你可以選擇努力的再去追返佢,但我成日都話,前題係你要再裝備自己,改變自己,比佢見到一個全新的你。何必要去妒忌人,因為今日的結果係你自己造成架,所以而家要點做的都係你自己!

要繼續做down落去,定要重新企起身,全在你一念之差,你自己諗清楚la~唔好怨天尤人la
2009-03-02 4:42 am
分左手就分左手架啦wor..首先要知道係D咩令到你地分手
如果問題太嚴重..你只係可以forget佢..
2009-02-25 10:01 pm
咁即係..佢唔係你真命天子喇....你諗諗,有一日,你真命天子泥到,佢見到你咁,你既chance就會miss左

畀d時間自己,你最重要係令自己開心左先~

難捱既日子總會過

我之前既男朋友唔要我個時,我點樣做佢都唔番泥,就算我死,佢都唔會再理我

你有冇听過eason 首"xx成熟時"呀?

+油呀~仲有大把好時光等緊你ga
2009-02-25 4:11 am
If you are a man, you should not be here grumbling this, complaining that..... this is Woman's doing.

Open up your eyes in Causeway Bay, Tsim Sha Tsui, Mongkok.... there are so many beautiful, nice, sexy and sweet ladies out there.... they can be yours if you really court them and show them how manly you can be. Dont be a loser here... so what if everybody pity you... what else will you get?

Go change into your best clothes.... say hello to the first pretty girl you meet and walk away (repeat it to the next 30 pretty girls)... then start to strike a conversation with the 32 pretty girl you meet... and start a new courtship from there....

You can achieve anything when you make the first move.
2009-02-25 1:07 am
Hi,

If you love her so much, why don't chase her back..... try to solve the problem... this is one of my opinion... you can consider
2009-02-25 12:26 am
首先你冷靜一下自己;
你愛過佢呢個好多人都好明白;
因為你愛得深;不過依家分左手;
自然會好唔捨得;筆竟佢都係你愛過;
你羨慕佢將來既另一半都有既;
24歲;都算係一個成家立室既時候;
你放唔低既話就唔應該講死先;
咁樣會令自己產生自殺既念頭;
你對愛太過執著;不如冷靜下;
慢慢試下放低佢;如果都係唔得;
你搵人傾下;你可以ADD我;
我睇下點樣可以幫到你丫`
[email protected]
你講到死咁;我想可以幫到你;
唔係同情心個d;出自真心幫你架`
2009-02-24 10:15 pm
Sorry ! i dont kow how to type chinese..... anyway I wanna know how old are u?????u had only been with your gf for 1 year,I know you probably love her a lot as this moment,but theres a lots in your life other than LOVE. if i were u ,i will study hard,work hard,even in the future u see each other again,u can be proud of yourself to be a sucessful man.

Dont worry!its not the end of the world,my life is even worst than u,but i never give up,hope u wont give up too.Good luck!
2009-02-24 10:07 pm
分開了就是分開 , 再追逐住往日的日子只會讓自己痛苦 , 你首先要接受自然已經分手 , 有多事不是想就得 , 你既然愛她 , 就要祝福她 , 妒忌只會令讓你離開不到她 , 學習放手是不易 , 但是來日方長 , 你就這樣過呀 ! 說不定一天找到一個更適合你呢 ? 不好再鑽牛角尖啦 ! 找d朋友活動下啦 !

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