他當我什麼?

2009-02-21 2:51 am
好混亂,依家我都唔知佢當我係咩

我諗我同A君都算係情侶
但其實我地兩個都冇正式同對方表明過,
只係好自然咁行埋一齊.
表面上A君同我都係內向個種人 (但係佢比較理智+冷淡)
係其他人面前,我地都係比較保持距離 (其實我唔介意),
所以大部份人覺得我地只係朋友同戀人之間既關係.
不過得番我地兩個個陣,我同A君o既態度都會變得好唔同.

至於另一個B君,其實我一直只係當佢朋友......
佢都應該知道我鐘意A君,
不過佢對我o既態度仲親密過A君對我.
有時我自己覺得,我同B君先係所謂既情侶

直到近來,A君同另一個女仔C行得好埋,
我覺得o係佢同阿C一齊果刻,已經當我唔存在.
可能我真係疑心重左DD (A君係個種比較COOL)
不過近來我連同佢單獨一齊都覺得好尷尬 唔知想點......
至於B君,就成日有意無意,暗示我由得A君同阿C繼續發展.

到底我係A君眼中係咩?
有時我覺得自己只係一廂情願......

回答 (4)

2009-02-21 3:31 am
✔ 最佳答案
你都識講啦,佢連正式表白都沒有做過,好明顯你地之間的關係不是戀人!雖然佢與你單獨相處時,有些不同,但是咁樣都唔代表佢喜歡你!可能佢只是當你是好朋友而已!因此,我認為你在A君的眼中來看,只不過當你係一個普通朋友或者好朋友而已!
你既然都感受到不快,自然應該好清楚A君對女仔C較好啦!既然你都知道咁樣,你都應該明白佢喜歡女仔C多於喜歡你!你要明白,佢都沒表白過,咁樣,就證明出你地根本唔算係已經開始了!
你現在只有兩個方法可以做的!
1.靜觀其變!看看佢與女仔C相處一段日子之後,再根據情況而再作判斷!
2.問清楚佢!與其估下估下,倒不如空接問清楚佢,咁樣做,就好快知道了答案了,何必又要浪費時間呢?
或者可能是你多心,不過,你的多心都是源於A君給唔到安全感你!我想你應該要好好正視和改善你與A君之間的關係,咁樣才可以令你與A君得到好的發展!還有,叫佢跟你表白,因為一日未表白,都始終唔算是拍拖!

2009-02-20 19:34:31 補充:
一切隨心而發吧!如果你是認為喜歡男仔B多一些,就放棄A君,然後與B一起吧!其實,感情好簡單,就是選擇自己最喜愛的人去發展!如果A君真的不喜歡你的話,倒不如放棄佢吧!
2009-02-21 3:18 am
I think everyone mentioned are trying to protect themselves.
That's why they never did tell anyone about their 'relationships' with each other, this, including you.
Playin the so-called 'love game'.

However, when everyone are capable to leave a relationship behind them, you cannot.

You truly liked or had a really hard crush on A.

For now, I can only suggest is that you do what you think would make you happy. Being stuck in a tri-relationship is not going to work.

Get a real relationship, I hope everything goes well for you, good luck.
2009-02-21 3:17 am
你必須直接同佢傾,直接問他是不是喜歡C了。如果他承認,離開他吧!

據你所描述,我看不出你們是情侶。你說你地兩個個陣,你同佢既態度都會變得好唔同。連在一起的時候,都只是覺得佢好唔同而已,只是一種感覺,他沒有實際行動和表現。
2009-02-21 3:14 am
你唔好想禁多野,可能係你自己想多左,B君佢一定叫你由佢嫁啦,佢想同你一齊呀嘛,不過如果你同A君以經冇D咩感覺的話,你不如放棄佢啦,因為人地以經同人地一齊,又有人想同你一齊啦!你愛一個人,但係佢同你都冇咩感覺的話,就唔係真正的愛情啦!

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