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I've fallen in love twice. Both girls I met online, one on MySpace and the other on a Christian message board.
For the one on the Christian message board, I liked her at first, but I thought she was a little too good for me. She lived nearby, so I arranged to meet her, and we got along great at first, but she fell for someone else, and we just ended up being friends. To this day, she's my best friend, and I love her genuinely as a friend, and often times as more. I really can't see living without her friendship. Although I know she loves me as a friend, I can't see her ever loving me as more than a friend, but the friendship is enough for me as long as she's happy. I think that's the most genuine kind of love there is.
For the other one I met on MySpace, I felt like she was my one-and-only. Everything was so perfect about her, and for a time, she genuinely reciprocated the same feelings. I saw her in person a few times before I met her on MySpace, but never got to speak to her much. We never officially went out or anything, and one night when she was the closest she ever was, I went to bed, unable to wait for the morning. I never saw her again. She had left her school, the town we live in, and she never signed on to MySpace again. I haven't been able to find her since. To this day, I don't know what happened or how to feel about it. I have some ideas about where I can look, but I think it would be considered stalking, since no one else knows or understands the history we shared.
I'd do anything to find her again, or to find someone who makes me feel the way she did, but I guess like you said, that last piece of the puzzle is so hard to find.
I'd also throw in to your puzzle analogy that some are obvious misfits, while others may seem be the right shape and color, while there's still usually a better piece out there somewhere. Sometimes finding a close enough piece works, but sometimes the bigger picture is ruined.