Losing someone you love either it could be a friend or a member of your family... is probably one of the worst experiences of life. It doesn't matter how strong you are; nothing can prepare you for the death or a separation of a loved one. When you first hear about what's happened you're in denial you can't believe that someone you know and love is dead or has left you. You can't bear the thought of never seeing, hearing or talking to them again. You feel numb even fearful at the thought. You keep expecting and hoping against hope to see them somewhere even if it was for a second to say the things you didn't say but fate is cruel and you don't get a second chance to say 'sorry', 'thank you' or 'I love you'. When you lose someone you start to think about your life and how there are so many things that you say and do that are wrong and a waste of valuable time.
We argue with those closest to us and don't forgive them for mistakes. We let our anger take control of us and say things in the heat of the moment without ever seriously considering what we are saying. We fear losing our friends and family because we feel such strong love for them.