So, what do you think...?

2009-01-30 10:51 pm
There's this guy, and, I only see him at the 18&Under's Night of this club in my city.

So, we started off as friends, hugging and saying Hi to each other, talking etc.

But... slowly, I've started to realise, I do quite like him..

But... I don't know if he likes me, but, I think he does, but I just want opinions.

Last week, he took his jacket off especially for me, because I was cold.
And, our hello hugs have turned into really long, really nice hugs. :D
And, tonight, he was sat with his arms around my waist for ages.
And, he kept tickling me XD

We were hugging goodbye, and we kinda looked at each other, like we were about to kiss, and then, we diidn't, and I'm thinking, maybe I should have? Maybe I shouldn't have?

He's single, but I don't wanna make an idiot of myself if he doesn't like me...

And... I really like him... :D
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Anyways! I'm seeing him tomorrow btw, what should I do? Should I say something? Or should I drop hints? What kind of hints? D:

回答 (5)

2009-01-30 10:59 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Haha, you've got a shy one! Your boy has never kissed a girl but dam I'd bet my house on he wants to kiss you. Might mean you've got to get the bottle to make the first move but hey only you know if he's worth it... If you've wrote this then I guess he is, just smack one on him, he'll love it. I guarantee it then you can opt this as the best answer. Easy.
2009-01-31 12:15 am
Time is the master here. If you want to build a solid relationship make sure you start solid.

Early flirting, though not always, too often lead to a dead end. While you shouldn't be too methodical, try to proceed from here at a pace of control, don't let your body's desires lead your mind at this early stage.

Let the conversations mature before the touches run too far ahead. Continue to share more time in groups so you can both be able to relax, see and enjoy each other on a lighter level.

Don't tell him that you like him too soon, start with simple compliments. Tell him that he is a nice guy or you like this or that about him. When he treats you like a lady tell him you appreciate that, this will help him to keep treating you with respect and help to set the right pace of your friendship before any serious relationship develops.
2009-01-30 11:00 pm
Tell him, ask him if he likes you as well. As from your description. He obviously like you a lot. There is nothing wrong to let him know. If he doesn't like you, he doesn't, you are not going to get everyone you want in life anyway.
If he does, then great, you two will have a lovely ending.
May be he is shy as well. Some guys will not go and ask until they are like 90 % sure you like him.
Alternatively, you should show him more obviously you like him. e.g. get annoyed when he checks out other girls, sit on his knee again, give him nice and long hugs, and just create "should i have/ or should i not" situation. I am sure, for a guy, it will be irresistible!!!
Best of luck and hope you two will be an item very soon.
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2009-01-30 11:00 pm
I think he definetly likes you .. sounds like there is some maaajor flirting going on between you !
When you see him tomorrow let him know that you are interested by flirting back with him etc.
And just relax and be yourself around him, dont be constantly on edge thinking omg what if i look like an idiot!?
cos you wont .. he obviously likes you so just go with it and enjoy being with him!

:)
2009-01-30 10:54 pm
get his NUMBER!!!!!

and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime :)

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