Playstation 2 RPG Games for Girls?

Tales of the Abyss/Tales of Legendia (The good ones are Japanese, these are the only two PS2 ones in english.)

Ar Tonelico 1, II is coming out soon hopefully..
Dark Cloud 1 and 2
Xenosaga
Xenosaga II
Wild Arms 4-5
Atelier Iris (Any for PS2)

though Star Ocean Til The End of Time is probably your best bet..

Then if you're looking to make your own character, Phantasy Star Universe would be a good choice.

Try "Tales of Vesperia" or any Tales game. They're probably a little different from the rpgs you've played, but they're very popular, have great storylines, and are a lot of fun to play. Also Mass Effect 2 and 3 play kind of like Dragon Age. Knights of the Old Republic 1 and 2 are good too, but you'd have to get them for your computer- I don't think you can get them on the ps3. They're fairly old, so you're computer will probably run them fine if you have any kind of video card.

Grand Theft Auto.

Dark Cloud
Kingdom Hearts
Star Ocean
Xenosaga
I hear .hack is good, i've never played it

grand theft auto series are good!!