Me and my boyfriend are very happy and in love. We have been best friends for years and nothing has really changed we are very close. In the bedroom he is a very generous lover and still excites me! However although I find it easy to get in the mood, as soon as he tries to "enter" I instantly want to squirm and I become dry and the excitement goes. It takes a lot to really get me in the mood but it never lasts more than about 30 seconds. I'm very comfortable with him and he isn't putting me under pressure, it also isn't a body issue. What could it be? Why do I get turned off by him?
Dont worry this can happen. Maybe u need longer for foreplay, and i find telling each other what u want one another to do to each other can be extremely helpful. This can be a real turn on. Massage one another beforehand etc. I hope this helps. Keep having fun;)
Its in your mind, your body may be comfortable with him but your mind is elsewhere. Think about the reason why, there has to be something that is not quite as you would like it in your relationship. Perhaps you would be happier and more relaxed if there were a ring on your finger ??