曖昧關係中的冷靜

2009-01-13 10:02 am
我之前都系度問過咖...
個topic係咪我太執著...
就係話我同我男友散左...識左第個男仔
無耐就同佢講我鐘意佢,佢冇答我
直到我同佢發生左關係,之後佢就話鐘意同我曖昧
我地晚晚都有keep住sd sms 有時會出黎食下野''
去打下麻雀...有時佢比我既感覺係真系鐘意我
佢做咩野都會同我,我就會好開心
覺得大家咁樣冇問題''
但系有時,我見到咁...
我就覺得好辛苦,唔明點解佢唔肯同我1齊,,,
我就會好唔想大家keep住咁樣,
我有同過佢講不如你唔好搵我啦`
但系佢都會sd sms 同電話比我`
之後我又咩都唔理去同佢sd sms
到左有晚我講左句野''之後佢就話我發作....
我就叫佢咁你咪唔好同我講野囉
之後佢就話唔知我個腦諗咩... 就話吾傾就算
之後佢就真系冇搵我..而我都冇搵佢

我想問
1.你覺得我應唔應該唔好理佢,等佢搵返我先算?
2.但係我好辛苦,我好想sd 返sms比佢,但係我又冇勇氣
3.其實佢係咪唔鐘意我,只係想拖住我...?
4.佢會唔會搵返我?
我想知道我而家應該點做
有冇人可以教下我?
更新1:

你都講得岩....但系我冇同佢sms我好唔知點 我同我自己講我唔可以再sd 比佢先 但系我覺得佢都系唔會主動囉'' 我有同佢講過我既感受呀... 佢就叫我唔好咁執著... 放開d 成日都諗埋呢d1唔1齊 而家咁樣曖曖昧昧唔係幾好咩= =

更新2:

但係佢冇搵我已經3,4日喇! 佢到底係想我搵返佢? 以為我會忍唔住搵返佢? 定系佢覺得我根本就冇意思搵唔搵佢都,,,

更新3:

其實我都知佢唔係真系鐘意我... 但系我自己又抽吾到身.... 成日好想好想佢... 我都知佢唔會係同我1齊... 但係自己又要中個頭埋去

回答 (4)

2009-01-13 10:52 pm
✔ 最佳答案
佢一開始已經同你講到好明, 佢淨係想同你保持曖昧關係,即係上床, 但又唔駛承諾, 哇 ! 係男人都想啦 ! 幾時飛你, 幾時同其他人拍拖, 上床都得, 你第日仲要無聲出, 因為佢一早就講明啦 ! 係你唔明之嘛 ! 咁樣你仲要問佢是否鍾意你 ? 佢除左淨係想收你做後備, 唔比你做正選之外, 我完全諗唔到係點解囉 ! 
佢根本唔想同你做一對一的男女朋友, 其實佢根本講到好白, 只係你唔想而已, 佢叫你唔好咁執著, 咪即係叫你唔好再諗有得做正選囉 ! 你一唔妥, 佢即克唔搵你啦 ! 咪即係講明你同得佢一齊, 就預左要跟佢的做法, 你係無聲出, 你係佢心目中有幾多份量, 你自己諗 !!!
你只有兩條路, 一係死死地氣跟住佢衫尾, 一係比自己落台, 你自己想清楚, 依家唔係你等唔等佢搵你的問題, 係佢究竟點樣睇你的問題, 仲有, 你點樣睇自己 ? 人地叫你做後備, 你都要自己上門的話, 以後就預左會點 !!
忠言係逆耳, 我都好明白. 但你想深一點, 我有無講錯佢?
2009-01-13 8:03 pm
首先個男仔有冇女朋友既先..如果冇,點解會有曖昧既關係呀.
如果佢有既,咁你亦係第三者,又或者佢但求就手,咁你咪唔好搵佢LAW.如果佢冇既..你又LIKE佢,咁你搵佢LA.現代既愛情冇分對與錯,既然鍾意佢就搵佢啦..
2009-01-13 3:33 pm
Hello, I think YOU Told him that you love him,佢冇答,
直到發生左關係,之後佢就話鐘意同我"曖昧" All I can see that he just treat you as a "水泡" all he wants is sex and have you around "sometimes" when he needed...
1) if he not find you which mean he either have someone else or really had enough of you, no point to find him again,
2) people said:
"該走到了這一天的時候,不要拖拖拉拉,要瀟瀟灑灑,長痛不如短痛"
3) with him, you can only enjoy a 短時候的快樂, Never have long term 幸福...
4) He is just a playboy, he doesnt want any trouble, as you are getting more Demand on him, so I dont think he will call back...
if he calls please consider deeply about your own 幸福...
remember 長痛不如短痛...unhappy now...= better future=)
All the best!!! Be smart!!!
2009-01-13 10:32 am
1.我覺得你緊係唔好搵返佢啦~佢都唔係真心想同你一齊...咩鐘意同你曖昧..假言假語來GE..因為工作驚無物時間陪你...係佢GE借口姐...講真~好似我男朋友~佢一邊返工..夜晚仲要讀夜校..佢都可以兼顧到啦...如果個男仔係鐘意你GE~佢一定會同你一齊囉..佢係鐘意你GE~佢一定會搵返你囉..但如果佢無再搵返你~佢鐘意你都極有限囉...更何況時間大家可以就咖嗎~預期要搵返佢..倒不如放手啦......
2.你SD返個SMS俾佢~講返晒自己d感受俾佢聽..例如..曖昧ge關係好辛苦...時間可以就等等............如果佢睇完都無咩行動..甘你以後都唔好搵佢啦~朋友都唔好做..等自己快d放手...
3.我就覺得兩樣野都有...佢係鐘意你..but唔會好深...又唔想無左你..於是咪成日拖下拖下甘囉...如果佢真係好鐘意你..佢一定會同你一齊囉..唔會因唔得行而唔一齊.....
4.佢會唔會搵返你...都好難講囉....如果佢發現無左你搵佢~佢會好唔憤ge~佢一定會搵你囉..但係如果佢覺得有無你都係一樣..就唔會...甘ge話...我都係覺得你早d放手囉........講真~你甘同佢曖昧法..你又唔係佢女朋友..如果有一日..佢搵到女朋友..甘到時傷得仲重啦~~唔通到時又因愛佢又唔想失去佢而願意做第三者??.....or繼續曖昧??..

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