(心理)點解人會半途而廢?

"當一個人受到屋企人既否認、朋輩既批評（所謂得不到認同）
其自尊心及自信心會因受情緒而大大降低" This is part of it. The main reason is something that causes one to have (the feeling of)the emptiness, and thus causes "giving up" or temper-sudden-changes.

Temper-sudden-change:

- One gets angry in a sudden in any time, any place, to anyone.
- One's personality becomes introvert
- One's mood will go up and "plummet"/go down rapidly, irregularly

點解會產生?

a - (He thinks or maybe not) Himself couldn't get any identifications
b - (He thinks or maybe not) Many people criticize him. Another
words, no on agree with his (ability,personality,works,
(home)background etc)

c - He himself speculates too much in order to get to perfect.
(And when time passes gradually, he will get in a mental problem or give up himself)

*One sentence: He is a pessimist. He thinks in a pessimistic side.

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可以點解決?

There have no other methods but:

- Tell him to think more optimistic
- Give some mental support to him
- Talk to him.Tell him to share his sadness, agonies,sorrows, troubles with you

*This can only be solved mentally

Sharing his sadness may release his latent problems, which is really helpful.

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(situation a & b)You should give some mental support to him, where you have to let him to feel the warmness and coziness, as well as the other's
identifications to him. This is the most important.

(situation c) You should also tell him that no one can get to the
perfect, but the happiness is already the perfect thing that he has.

一個人半途而廢既因素有很多
大多數是家庭及朋輩影響所引致

當一個人受到屋企人既否認、朋輩既批評（所謂得不到認同）
其自尊心及自信心會因受情緒而大大降低

例如經常動氣既父母稱要子女讀好些書，
因父母終日不認同子女或拒絕他們所需的要求
而轉個頭他們的子女受到朋輩的認同及支持，得到快樂及滿足

就是青少年的逆反心理

這些子女常常因受到家庭、親友、組織的阻撓，
不準子女與朋輩交往，於是，產生逆反心理

子女的心理其實是最需要身邊的人支持及認同
身為父母者應該多了解子女其心理狀態，多支持及關心他們