Women should top committing to the first guy who pops up. Don't become his girlfriend right away. Keep your options open and stay free to date others, all the while continuing to check the men out. You have to make sure you're not dating a weirdo. Date in greater numbers and you will generally get lucky with a good one.
seriously, in case you havent noticed Y/A isnt a good place for meeting black men. why? because most of us dont come here it isnt our kinda atmosphere, everybody here dates white people
try...myspace,blackplanet,black voices etc.
better yet get out there and meet some...where do u live im sure there are plenty
I am not a good man and sometimes I am a good man so I don't know how to go where to find a good man but if you want to go find him you can go heaven to find