why is it so hard to find a gentleman these days!?

Seriously, you have to be a "gentlewoman" to find a gentleman.
What social, or practical skills do you possess? Are you a good talker? Do you cook well?

Do you know current events? A good dancer, or love sports?

To find a gentleman, you have to hang out where single ones also hangout.
Not bars, not in malls, but in community classes, or lectures, like at church, for example.

And, even after you find a good guy, you have to take care of yourself too.
Don't expect men today, to take care of a woman. Broken relationships and divorce are all too common.

You should work on making yourself independent, then you wont be beholding to anyone else, and can "take it, or leave it", without having to be tied down.

When you are a co-equal, IMO, you will not only be able to find a gentleman, but hold on to that relationship much longer.

A good relationship is a partnership, worse when one-sided.
Good luck.

Men just aren't raised that way anymore. I suggest going high society in England.

Those qualities aren't being passed on as they once were. Young boys and young men used to be taught how to be gentlemen, but it happens less and less.

Of course, conversely there are just as few ladies nowadays.

If gentleman is what you are looking for, you can get that easily. There are many of us.

Now if you want things added on to us like good looks, athletic body, loads of cash, fancy car, big house, great job, large tool, the right age, then you have to select from what's available to you.

Gentleman is not the only thing you are wishing for, now is it?

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You may think it is "hard" to find a gentleman these days. In truth, they are possibly everywhere. Due to the fact that majority of the society whom are males think that girls "dig" guys who are "badass" and can talk "badass" and looks "badass."

If you don't think it would make you feel embarrassed, talk with some guys and ask them if they think girls like gentlemen. Hear their answer, and then settle on one. Before you pick anyone, even if they may seem "badass", check to see if they are a gentleman inside. If they are, you can still get together with them, and tell them you'd like a gentlemen.

*TIP: Try to go to places where it's not as "cool." Gentlemen that you're looking for might not be the type that would go to rave clubs. They would probably hang around a coffee shop or something.

We are around. Its just that an extra effort on the part of the lady is required. You won't find us hanging out at nightclubs or masquerade bash's. You'll find us at the stores close-by, at the library and at all the decent places you can think of

It's coz they're rare. So precious so they're hard to find. But you;ll meet one eventually. I met mine, after 16 years of waiting. And we're still going strong, for two years. And also, i'm surrounded with my wonderful guy friends. Guess, it may be fate, or i'm just lucky! :)

I didnt know women still want a gentlemen. Like i try to be a gentlemen as much as possible around girls, but they always seem to fall for the assholes.

the same reason there are no more ladies. or getle ladies i think. but really being a gentle man is boring and gets you nowhere with girls. guys stopped being gentle men cuz they know that women think its boring thats why they turn into jackasses. what women like

I don't thing it is hard to find someone like that, u just don't go to find some gentleman he will find u.