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Here's a thought...tell your parents that you've suddenly become very interested in your heritage and want to learn to recognize and write their and your names in Chinese characters.
Don't guess about the right character. You are not picking a name that you want to be called because is sounds pretty, and where you have lots of choices as to which character to use. This is your surname, and it has to be right.
p.s., don't get the tattoo, but do show an interest in your heritage.