What Do I do if i am about to be living with a japanes girl?

2008-12-19 1:51 am
I am 15 years old and I am a guy and i am about be living with a Japanese girl my age. she is coming from Japan to live with us for a while because of a home host thing I dont get. all i know is how to speak some Japanese and what they like to do. I've never had experience with a Japanese girl so I'm wondering, you know? Like how do I present myself? and what if she likes me? what if she hates me? i need help people! all right thanks.

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2008-12-19 9:47 pm
✔ 最佳答案
When I was 17 and went to California as an exchange student, I stayed with a host family which has a 16-year-old son.
He was very attractive and sweet, and I liked him a lot as a friend.

As someone says, if you respect her, she wouldn't hate you at all.
That how my host brother was.
He'd never been mean to me.
And whenever he had a time, he talked me a lot. (Never in Japanese).

Also he intruduced me his girl friend and buddies, and because of that, I enjoyed my life in California and high school.

Everythint will be all right.
Just be the way you are.
2008-12-19 2:05 am
It'll probably be her first time to live outside of Japan, apart from her family.
She must be nervous, lonely and scared. Everything you could assist, plz assist her. School stuff, friends, language bareer, just everything.
She might be much more encouraged to spend days there if there's someone who is supportive.

If she likes you or not, it is gonna be a topic happens later on.

What she first need is someone who shows his/her effort to understand her, support her as much as he/she can.

If her English is not so good, plz pay attention to speak clearly and much slowly. word-to-word. It's gonna be a bit frustrating you, but in that way, she might have more space to "think" and "understand" English well.
Don't use too much slang to her. she never understands you at first.

Think what you'd appreciate if someone do something for you when you happen to live in outside of US. Do things what you would appriciate if you were in her position. That might be helpful for her too.
參考: Japanese
2008-12-19 2:38 am
Treat her with respect and you shouldn't have any problems.
2008-12-19 3:22 am
Be incredibly nice to her. Be very, very polite. She's going to be nervous, especially in regards to you. She's not going to hate you, unless you are a total jerk. Be nice. Be polite. Do things for her. Pour her a drink. Also take good care of your personal hygiene. Don't be sloppy. Take off your shoes. Wear clean socks. Don't burp or fart or do anything that might upset her... She might turn out to be a friend for life if you behave well.

Do not flirt or act romantic. You will make her feel uncomfortable. She is your honored guest.
2008-12-19 7:12 am
Usually in these cases, she would've done a lot of research on life in US prior, so if you have time, maybe show her around and show her how Americans in US live, especially people her age (she might be surprised how different it is from all the online readings she's done). Ask her what she wants to experience, whether it be the mall, movies, sports events, etc.

Because she's here to learn English, you don't need to know a lot of Japanese, rather, use simple English. She'll be happy she can learn the language from you.

Don't have to "pretty" yourself, just be yourself. Unless you're acting like a jerk, she's not going to hate you.
2008-12-19 4:15 am
Luckily for you, Japanese people normally do not show their emotions or biases as they do in America.
Just be yourself, and you'll be fine.
If she likes you, ask her for her email address for after she goes back to Japan, and start saving up for a vacation to Japan.
If you are nice to her here, she will be unbelievably nice in Japan when you meet her there.
Just don't be fake.
參考: Have met a lot of Japanese students. She'll appreciate it if you try to say some things to her in Japanese, but probably will like to practice English a lot.
2008-12-19 1:55 am
If she hates you too bad, she has to live with you. And if she likes you then ok she likes you
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2008-12-19 1:38 pm
I would move out dude. Japanese girls are all on drugs and they are racist towards everyone. Most pick preppy fags in the world. They think that they deserve a freaking prince from England or something. American girls are the best.
2008-12-19 2:32 am
You don't need to adapt to her. She's the one trying to learn overseas culture not you. If she likes you great but if she hates you.....SHE's inside your house so tell her to go to hell.
If you want to make her like you, don't be japanese, she had seem a lot already.


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