我性格脾氣好有問題

2008-11-30 5:03 am
我二十歲..係一個土生土長香港女仔..我細個好乖好斯文..但係越大就越衰..但係我自己知衰架..性格大轉變...好憤世嫉俗..例如:好唔鍾意d大陸人黎到香港d行為唔好...講野大聲..粗魯..冇規矩..又好憎搭電梯時d人唔靠右企..阻住我行...我仲激氣到仲落到地面撞開阻住我果個人...有時自己諗係正義o既野就做...有一次搭屋內私人巴士..見到一家三日打尖..又同人嘈起上黎..不顧儀態...仲有好憎搭升降機d人係自己果層入左又唔跟手按鈕關門...類似成日做出以上行..我一d平和心都冇架..
都唔知係依家d人冇晒公民意識責任..定係我個人問題唔適合係市區生活咁...我真係好羨慕d日本人...外國人咁好禮貌咁禮讓

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2008-12-09 8:35 am
✔ 最佳答案
二十歲...唔...二十歲...
你裏面果個"小我"成熟了, 長大了, 有地位了...

之前你好乖好斯文...因為仲係摸索緊乜嘢叫做"我"...所以係"小我"

查實係你啲賀爾蒙支配了你, 因為你的身體已經成熟, 可以發揮影響力, "自我"要支配周遭環境...

將來, 還有"大我"和"超我", 代表你會表現出"天下無敵"和"惟我獨尊"...

膨脹吧! "我"是世界的中心...

2008-12-09 02:06:07 補充:
唔玩嘞, 正正經經答你...

你表面上好似性格大變, 好憤世嫉俗, 其實係賀爾蒙作怪, 你這歲數, 正是青春期進入高峰, 要摸索自己的極限, 挑戰已經存在的價值觀, 創造自己的規矩, 打造合你心意的世界, 因此好有正義感, 好有節奏感, 好有領導感...

若你能掌握這種動力, 將來不難成就一番大事...

不過將來, 也會有新一班後生仔, 挑戰你...推翻你...

這就是...進步了...
參考: 變形俠醫
2008-11-30 9:59 pm
其實不是你的性格脾氣好有問題
而是有關觀念的問題
其實你只是對人的行為不滿
你只是想平反
你又冇講粗口,又冇太大反應
已經是很斯文
你是有權講出你的感受

你的性格是冇問題
2008-11-30 6:24 am
It's okay, because everyone has also been like this sometimes, including myself. I hate people blocking my way through, and like what you've said, you'll do something which you think is right. Actually, it's also right to correct those people who are wrong. Sometimes when you see Mainland people doing something (which you don't really like) you might get angry (This is normal) because their lifestyle is different with ours(e.g. sitting on the ground, spitting, shouting.......).
參考: My Life
2008-11-30 5:18 am
係唔係你細個個陣時發生左一d野令你的性格有咁大的轉變?

其實由你以上所講的事黎講,我覺得你份人係激動左d,但都有正義感,會將不滿講出黎,我諗你要收下你d脾氣,做野要三思而後行!


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