If you don't mind, could you tell me roughly how much you can earn a month? Just a rough figure will be fine. Please. Thanks.
I am sure the person won't mind telling you more details since you are so polite. Also, it works with oral.
(May I be excuse?)
Usually a normal conversation will not come up with (May I be excuse?)
People usually said: Please excuse me. Or: I hope you don't mind
Oral, is a bit different from writing, especially the tune.
Hope this can provide better help to your conversation