✔ 最佳答案
a sense of occupancy is not love.
Your boyfriend is one of your relationship., but it is not your property.
I know many girls like sense of safety.
But this kind of safety is just an illusion, the biggest illusion, perhaps,
Since you can't live without someone, some is already something for you to escape your loniless, and out of that loniless you have to occupty something.
You occupy your boyfriend, someone occupy themeselves with their jobs, someone occupy themselves with their God, some occupy themselves with drugs.
THat's no differecne, you and I are still finding something to escapae one's lonliness....to make your mind feel a sense of safety.
And there is no love, if there is fear of losing, since out of this fear, there will be hatred, will be dependent, will be occupy, will be jealous, will be sad, will be depressed and so on and so on...
if you can go into yourself, you will find that loniless exists, it is not my thoery, you can feel it deeply, around the corner, when your man is not at the sight of you, so you can't live alone.
anyway, self-identification is one of the misery in the world, perhaps the greatest misery.
if you really have love, even the man you love leave you, you will still help him love.
The end of sorrows is love