如何操練忍耐?人生的成敗不在於事業的成就是嗎?為什麼?

1. 如何操練忍耐?

why you need to tolerate?

IT is because you don't accept, very obvious.

why don't you fight with the reality?

which is conflict, and you separate yourself to anger, so you need to 忍耐.

something I want to discuss with you is a famous thing:

Is observer different from what he observes? I mean in your inner side, such as anger, sadness, jealousy..... how do you look at it?

YOu condemn, you say, anger is not a good thing, I must get rid of it, you usually condemn it, so you 操練忍耐, or you justify it, "yes, it is right to be angry, since it is too unacceptable!", or you find the reason of why you accept.

But looking for a reason for why you are angry will not change the state of your anger, so why you have to 操練忍耐?

it means conflict, and out of that conflict there is no freedom to look.

人生的成敗不在於事業的成就是嗎?

why you need success too much? you can chase for success in any field, any place, including 事業

but what you are looking for, chasing, is just a sense of satisfaction

to be something, to be somebody, which is greater than the now you.

otherwise you don't have to chase, and too urge to be success.

Why you need success, I mean, also, in other field, because of money? and money give you a sense of satisfaction that you are better than other, you can buy a car and others can't, you can have a beautiful wife and others can't, is that why you need success that much?

I am just asking you, I am not giving any answer, think and think, it is your life ^^

搵多d錢law, 到時你咪會知得到d咩, 失去d咩......但大前提係, 要對得自己對得人...!

忍耐要靠個人明白怒氣不能解決問題,只會增長問題,
而靠自己的智慧開導!
人生的成敗在於你如何看待成就二字!